Anonymous wrote:No, don't do it. Take the high road and sleep well at night knowing you uphold your marriage vows.

+100

No, don't do it. Take the high road and sleep well at night knowing you uphold your marriage vows.

OP I am a woman and I would totally go for it. But I have a hall pass.

Anonymous wrote:A move this bold calls for an ice cold Zima!

Loooooool

Anonymous wrote:What will actually happen:
He'll get drunk and spend the evening awkwardly hitting on her until she finds an excuse to leave. He'll go back to his room and try to jack off while sobbing. When he gets home, he'll find that she has blocked him on Facebook.

. This. I would think you were pathetic.

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Anonymous wrote:If anyone from my past would suggest such a thing, I would think that he was a loser and be thankful that I dodged a bullet. It would erase all of the positive feelings associated with the old memories. Loser.

100% agreed

I think calling names is not necessary. Sounds like an over-reaction and not useful. BTW, affairs at reunions are not uncommon.

You sound like someone who has or hopes to cheat. Reunion cheating may not be uncommon but it is indeed a loser phenomenon. I would be so thankful I dodged that bullet and didn't end up with a cheater. All those warm and fuzzy old feelings would be gone in a heartbeat.

Get a sports car.

If you make a pass and it gets awkward and she rejects you, that will throw a bucket of cold water on the nice memories you have and the positive regard you currently have for one another. You'll no longer be "that cute guy from college who I think about from time to time" in her mind; you'll morph into "that lonely guy who awkwardly hit on me at the reunion" or "that douchebag". Keep the association/memories pure.