Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 16:41     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:My SIL did this to bag my BIL. It worked and they have what one could call a good marriage. She is just one of those people who gets what she wants, other people dammed.

so your siblings wife and husband got pregnant together? I can hear hillbilly music playing in the background
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 15:42     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
No wonder why there are so many men and women that are bitter and miserable by their 40s!
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 15:32     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:I can't believe women actually do this!! One of my friends just started having unprotected sex with her long term boyfriend. He has been hesitant to go through a wedding with her but always talks about having children. So now they're having unprotected sex. Now she says she just wants a quickie ceremony after she's knocked up.

Anyone else has done this? Does it end well?


Well what girl doesn't dream of having a quickie ceremony? And all she has to do is have a baby!

Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 15:28     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:So actually she's not getting pregnant to "keep" him.
She's getting pregnant to coerce him into having a ceremony.
Just dumb.


Yep. I dunno...just gives me the wrong feeling.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 15:24     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
God, I'm 6 months pregnant right now (DH was in on this plan BTW), and I would prefer that he and all people leave me alone - I feel cranky and I can't see my feet, and I'm whiny. Isn't this sort of the opposite of "what men want"?
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 15:02     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
So actually she's not getting pregnant to "keep" him.
She's getting pregnant to coerce him into having a ceremony.
Just dumb.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 13:16     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
If she is lying to the guy about not using birth control that is very, very wrong.

But if the couple plays Russian Roulette at times and/or is not as careful as they could be...babies happen. Hopefully they are in a place in there lives, and in their relationship with each other, where a pregnancy will be a happy surprise for both of them...
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 13:14     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:I know a woman who did to keep her husband she was separated from. He was cheating all of the time. She wanted him to move back home and thought a baby would fix their marriage. He moved back home but the cheating didn't stop. Now she's sticks at home with a screaming baby and a husband who doesn't like her.


Serves her right.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 13:13     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:Men also purposely impregnate Gfs and wives to keep them from leaving.


Complete garbage.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 13:11     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:That doesn't guarantee anything, just look at "Teen Mom" on MTV.


Well it guarantees about 18 years of child support payments.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 12:46     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
It did cross my mind and actually went off the pill for 2 months in the hopes that it would happen. During that time however I realized he wasnt the man I wanted to be with for the rest of my life and luckily I never did end up conceiving with him.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 12:33     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
I now know multiple people who play this game, and I find it disgusting.
MaxwellSmart
Post 05/12/2015 11:43     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
It's like a car crash, nobody even wins!
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 11:10     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Anonymous wrote:Why is a ceremony so important to your friend?

She comes from a conservative community.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2015 10:00     Subject: Getting pregnant to keep a man
Why is a ceremony so important to your friend?