Anonymous
04/16/2015 01:42
Subject: Another IL visit post
Anonymous wrote:I think it's weird you don't offer them your bedroom. I don't think I could ever ask my parents to sleep on a mattress in the living room. Maybe they don't find you inviting and don't see the point in visiting.
I think they should stay in a hotel. They know the arrangement at the house and if that does not work for them, get a hotel.
Anonymous
04/15/2015 23:18
Subject: Another IL visit post
Why can't one of the kids give up their room and they bunk with you or the kids together? This seems like the most reasonable, logical thing to do.
I understand why you would want them to visit. Aside from your DH, it's important for your kids as well. I do think your post is a little of the feeling that you want them to come w/o you being inconvenienced whatsoever (bed early, private space, etc.) You don't sound very welcoming. Maybe they pick up on that? You need to be a bit more flexible. And kick one of the kids out of their room.
I understand why you would want them to visit. Aside from your DH, it's important for your kids as well. I do think your post is a little of the feeling that you want them to come w/o you being inconvenienced whatsoever (bed early, private space, etc.) You don't sound very welcoming. Maybe they pick up on that? You need to be a bit more flexible. And kick one of the kids out of their room.