Anonymous wrote:OP,
If you're looking for private, I would look at Lab. If you want specific feedback on the three schools you mentioned, I would post in the DC Schools forum a title like "Stokes, Two Rivers, Cleveland for ADHD?"
Many people on this forum give a lot of feedback for FCPS and MCPS. I think less so for DC.
Not necessarily...OP, you can search this forum for terms like OSSE. There is some discussion about how a charter school might come to decide, together with the IEP, that they can't serve the kid's needs (this is when they are their own LEA), and if they do, OSSE doesn't put up a fight about paying for private, as long as the IEP can prove they tried everything.
Good luck!