OP, perpetuating this thread for the second time, offering "clues" to a blog, etc., it seems you enjoy the attention. Perhaps you're as pathological as him?

You know the answer, but the answer is no fun and not much drama. Good luck with that.

I'm sorry OP. This guy seems nuts. Please stay away and run fast!

Wow - this is what would call "Getting kicked off the Titanic before it left port."

OP here. I will not post a link to the blog. It's a well know site that calls out people. In this posting it was originated by a man. It said things like " Don't trust him. He uses and abuses people." Apparently it says his internet business is fraudulent and his family is full of scammers. He has been around the block ( I knew that) and there were several women who posted, some his exes. They stated how they regret sleeping with him, he gave some stds, he is a liar, a cheater, a fraud. The worst is that he paid for abortions when he got the girl pregnant. The most damning is he has a child whom I was never told about.

My head is literally spinning. His most recent gf contacted me. Apparently he cheated in the month span, gave her two stds, and then forced her into getting an abortion.

What a Fing sicko..

Anonymous wrote:Post a link to the blog! You are lucky you found out what a turd he is before you got more involved

Are you kidding?? That would only provoke him. He's obviously unstable.

Post a link to the blog! You are lucky you found out what a turd he is before you got more involved

There are just some thoughtless, immature, unstable and very heartless creatures who roam this Earth OP and unfortunately you had the bad luck of running into one of them.

I am sorry for what happened, know you didn't deserve his meanness at all, that he is the one with the issue not you.

Thank your lucky stars you found this out NOW (sooner) rather than later, after sleeping with him and perhaps developing stronger feelings.

I would have just enjoyed my time in the city and had a nice mini-vaca while I was there.

Hey if life hands you lemons....Well, you know the rest dear.

You deserve much better. And he deserves nothing.

A blog? What?? Full of other women's accounts of his misdeeds? That's f-ing crazy!! Block his number. Hopefully he doesn't know where you live.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for the responses. I want to clarify to whomever needs it that this is the man I was with before grad, not a new guy. I feel so foolish. It takes forever for me to open and trust but it came easy with him.

He has called and texted asking if I was still in NY and wanted to meet. I can't believe he's seriously asking that. I will not reply. Thanks again!

He's a psycho. Change your phone number asap!

No more communication. No more googling him. Just move on.

Anonymous wrote:You are so lucky you never slept with him. He is a mean and evil person and you should never speak to him or see him ever again.

I agree. I am very thankful I never slept with him. I just found a blog about him. The things these people are saying about him would be shocking but not so much after this.

You are so lucky you never slept with him. He is a mean and evil person and you should never speak to him or see him ever again.