Women don't age well so there is that plus to the younger second wife.

Guys may not age well if they don't take care of themselves but they have a shit-load more money which, believe it or not, lots of younger women find immensely attractive. Guys are drawn to attractive women and sex and women are drawn to a guy with money. Both are shallow in their own way in terms of their priorities.

If a woman is a single mother with younger children and primary custody, the problems finding another guy are compounded many fold which is why you have all those threads in the relationship forum on where to meet eligible guys if one is a single mother.

Funniest part of this thread by far is the delusional ranting of the "first wives." Yeah sure honey, whatever it takes for you not to recognize that as men move into middle age, they make a shit ton more money and generally get more attractive (outliers aside). Meanwhile you you wrinkle up and get more bitter and angry. If I were a married woman with kids and a reasonably good life I'd get very realistic about my "free market" options as compared to my husband's, and act accordingly. That might help some of you avoid the angry solitude evident in the posts of some of these old chickens.

I thought this was about polygamy

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most first wives are ecstatic to be free of the loser!

And most husbands are ecstatic and relieved to be free of that first wife who has started to look like a fat hag ...... and a bitch to boot.

So win-win all around, right?

And he's so hot He had hair and a free-will boner when we met. Why somebody hot and single would want somebody previously married says to me she wasn't good enough to land a 'first' one.

Most women - once they get married - lose their libido. So maybe it works out well between the guy who can't get a free-will boner and the woman who does not want frequent sex.

Win-win, yet again for both sides.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most first wives are ecstatic to be free of the loser!

And most husbands are ecstatic and relieved to be free of that first wife who has started to look like a fat hag ...... and a bitch to boot.

So win-win all around, right?

And he's so hot He had hair and a free-will boner when we met. Why somebody hot and single would want somebody previously married says to me she wasn't good enough to land a 'first' one.

Anonymous wrote:Most first wives are ecstatic to be free of the loser!

And most husbands are ecstatic and relieved to be free of that first wife who has started to look like a fat hag ...... and a bitch to boot.

So win-win all around, right?

Anonymous wrote:Most first wives are ecstatic to be free of the loser!

Yes, yes we are. Plus I took everything not nailed done and I got half of all ARE money.

Anonymous wrote:1st marriages 41% divorce rate.
2nd marriages 60% divorce rate.
3rd marriages 73% divorce rate.

Hot enough and smart enough to be a first wife.

Who wants to get somebody's sloppy seconds?

Dispelling the common 2nd+ wife myth of 'but he'd never cheat on me".

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The first wife was perfect. Always put out, never nagged him, Was not crazy and he cheated. ALWAYS.

That about right?

Why would you want a cheater?

Most first wives are ecstatic to be free of the loser!

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the second wife, and I am awesome. Mostly because I don't cheat on DH like the first one did. But also because I'm not crazy.

True but you got sloppy seconds. And baggage.

So you married a virgin who had never had a prior relationship and had perfect parents?

Chances are, no matter who you marry you're not going to be his first and he's going to have some kind of baggage.

Dating is different than marriage.
My dh doesn't have baggage from his parents. Kids and and ex wife last a life time.

^^
He had a lousy lawyer.

In most states, alimony - if awarded at all - is given for a very limited amount of time and with a good lawyer the amount is relatively minor even for someone with a substantial income.

I know a second wife who complained on DCUM that DH and she are busting their assess to pay alimony and child-support. I LOLed. Good work, first wife. You won!

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Anonymous wrote:I'm the second wife, and I am awesome. Mostly because I don't cheat on DH like the first one did. But also because I'm not crazy.

True but you got sloppy seconds. And baggage.

So you married a virgin who had never had a prior relationship and had perfect parents?

Chances are, no matter who you marry you're not going to be his first and he's going to have some kind of baggage.

First wife with hot husband





2nd wife with NOT hot husband