Anonymous
01/10/2015 22:10
Subject: Ready to Wash Hands of DS
I think the world would be a happier place is everyone behaved as guitar.
Anonymous
01/10/2015 20:36
Subject: Ready to Wash Hands of DS
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Boys don't become "adult" until they are 25, hopefully.
If they are infantilized.
People are as irresponsible as they are allowed to be.
In my country 18 year olds are adults, and expected to behave as guitar.
That sounds a bit unreasonable
Anonymous
01/10/2015 20:34
Subject: Ready to Wash Hands of DS
Anonymous wrote:Boys don't become "adult" until they are 25, hopefully.
If they are infantilized.
People are as irresponsible as they are allowed to be.
In my country 18 year olds are adults, and expected to behave as guitar.
Anonymous
01/10/2015 20:26
Subject: Ready to Wash Hands of DS
[quote=Anonymous]I'm a single mom dealing with a recent health scare (will find out results today).
DS is home for winter break, due to leave this weekend as 2nd semester classes begin Tues. however there's still an outstanding balance from 1st semester that must be cleared up 1st. One problem is that he did not complete the promissory note to have the loan funds disbursed. Then there's still a tiny remaining balance I planned to work to clear up today.
DS goofed off a bit til yesterday then tried but could not figure out the promissory note. Ok, I'll help you when I get home from work. Then he couldn't find the laptop charger. So we'll go to the library and do it today, right?
DS was too busy watching a show when I said let's go get this figured out (and I could do my part as well). Said he'd meet me there. Nope! We have to go together. The next thing I know I see him getting in his car. I call and tell him to return so we can go together. He left anyway! By the time I reached him via cell, he was at the library! (Remember he doesn't know what to do and needs my help.)
I realize on it's face it's a small thing but I've had it with his lack of respect. I had the day planned so I could hopefully have his situation cleared before figuring out his plane ticket, going in for my results, etc. needless to say, the plane tix, books etc will come at a HUGE financial sacrifice-which I'm tired of doing for a know-nothing who wants to act like he knows all.
I told him during break that if we can't figure out the financial thing his option is to find a job, work and transfer to an instate school for fall. To top it off, he was on academic probation 1st semester but swears he 'll do better after having the time to transition.
I'm just so pissed at his lack of regard for me that I'm ready to wash my hands. I have my health to consider. I'm ready to take and return the car, say F it to trying to settle up his tuition matters ( with no $), and tell him to just go it alone since he thinks he knows it all and doesn't listen to me anyway.
Yeah I needed to vent. And to have posters tell me I'm overreacting.[/quote]
Sounds like he has ADHD. Has he ever been evaluated for that?
DS is home for winter break, due to leave this weekend as 2nd semester classes begin Tues. however there's still an outstanding balance from 1st semester that must be cleared up 1st. One problem is that he did not complete the promissory note to have the loan funds disbursed. Then there's still a tiny remaining balance I planned to work to clear up today.
DS goofed off a bit til yesterday then tried but could not figure out the promissory note. Ok, I'll help you when I get home from work. Then he couldn't find the laptop charger. So we'll go to the library and do it today, right?
DS was too busy watching a show when I said let's go get this figured out (and I could do my part as well). Said he'd meet me there. Nope! We have to go together. The next thing I know I see him getting in his car. I call and tell him to return so we can go together. He left anyway! By the time I reached him via cell, he was at the library! (Remember he doesn't know what to do and needs my help.)
I realize on it's face it's a small thing but I've had it with his lack of respect. I had the day planned so I could hopefully have his situation cleared before figuring out his plane ticket, going in for my results, etc. needless to say, the plane tix, books etc will come at a HUGE financial sacrifice-which I'm tired of doing for a know-nothing who wants to act like he knows all.
I told him during break that if we can't figure out the financial thing his option is to find a job, work and transfer to an instate school for fall. To top it off, he was on academic probation 1st semester but swears he 'll do better after having the time to transition.
I'm just so pissed at his lack of regard for me that I'm ready to wash my hands. I have my health to consider. I'm ready to take and return the car, say F it to trying to settle up his tuition matters ( with no $), and tell him to just go it alone since he thinks he knows it all and doesn't listen to me anyway.
Yeah I needed to vent. And to have posters tell me I'm overreacting.[/quote]
Sounds like he has ADHD. Has he ever been evaluated for that?