Anonymous wrote:

MikeL wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

MikeL wrote:Get in contact with me. I'll help you out on that front

Come on really? I assume you're married right? What would you think of a woman that would actually consider taking you up on that? Who does this? I mean my NC guy, I knew 30 years ago really well.

No, I'm not.

Oh well, that would be even worse trouble for me then!

Pshaw, I'm not the jealous type at all. We'd have fun.

MikeL wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

MikeL wrote:Get in contact with me. I'll help you out on that front

Come on really? I assume you're married right? What would you think of a woman that would actually consider taking you up on that? Who does this? I mean my NC guy, I knew 30 years ago really well.

No, I'm not.

Oh well, that would be even worse trouble for me then!

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like my dad. I'd definitely run.

How so? You mean the dynamic or the exact profile?

Anonymous wrote:

MikeL wrote:Get in contact with me. I'll help you out on that front

Come on really? I assume you're married right? What would you think of a woman that would actually consider taking you up on that? Who does this? I mean my NC guy, I knew 30 years ago really well.

No, I'm not.

Anonymous wrote:where you more than friends when you knew him all those years ago or is this an unrequited crush from the old days ?

No. I was friends with his GF and pined from afar.

Sounds like my dad. I'd definitely run.

where you more than friends when you knew him all those years ago or is this an unrequited crush from the old days ?

I say red flag. Unless you are dating Ross from Friends?

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he had bad taste in women.

I've seen pictures of them both--they look alike--and both look like his mother whom he hates.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he had bad taste in women.

The women remarried and have stayed remarried.

Anonymous wrote:OP here--I do wonder what will become of him though. He seems very angry and hateful of his mother--he talks about her quite a bit. I suppose he will have a pretty lonely life in the long run because after all who will ave a long term relationship with him? Divorced women his own age who will put up with exactly none of his shit. Or some 19 y o innocent with some wide eyed outlook. I think he's actually still in love with his college/law school girlfriend that he broke up with 25 years ago or his high school gf--bc he still talks about both of them quite a bit.

I was 22 and very naive when this successful 50 smth lawyer swept me off my feet. I was too stupid to even think of the red flags which were too obvious - 2 marriages. Cheated on the first wife with his second wife. They had a boy. With his second wife he had a boy and a girl. Cheated on her repeatedly. She divorced him once the kids went to college. I was just plain stupid and he went ahead and broke my heart (was seeing escorts while I was living with him). His daughter doesn't date at all because of him... She told me she can't trust men. God, I am so disgusted right now.
Sorry

Anonymous wrote:So, what if someone got married when they were young and stupid, they had a baby and were divorced by mid-20's. Then get remarried 5-7 years later, have 2 more kids, and that end in divorce 15-20 years later? That would put you in your mid-50's easily.

I really don't see why that should disqualify a person from the dating pool. I'd definitely take into account the relationship he has with his exes and kids, though.

He was not young and stupid. He was 28 for the first marriage and late 30s for the second, so yeah. Again, I don't know how long each marriage lasted. That change your assessment?

Anonymous wrote:Probably a serial cheater

Exactly.

Maybe he had bad taste in women.

So, what if someone got married when they were young and stupid, they had a baby and were divorced by mid-20's. Then get remarried 5-7 years later, have 2 more kids, and that end in divorce 15-20 years later? That would put you in your mid-50's easily.

I really don't see why that should disqualify a person from the dating pool. I'd definitely take into account the relationship he has with his exes and kids, though.