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Anonymous wrote:I do not understand how people are too exhausted to have sex. If its a weeknight it takes no longer that a shower to have sex. Speaking of showers, we quite often multitask and have sex in the shower.

I think it's great when two low drive people find each other. However being a working woman in a predominantly male industry there are loads and loaes of people having affairs. I'm sure this is what keeps one of the "happy" partners happy in a sexless marriage.

right bc the woman who has 6 rounds of chemo needs to suck it up so her man doesn't have an affair...right.

Please. Stop projecting your very specific and unusual circumstances. This is not a convo about the sex lives of cancer patients. Dont be dense.

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Anonymous wrote:I do not understand how people are too exhausted to have sex. If its a weeknight it takes no longer that a shower to have sex. Speaking of showers, we quite often multitask and have sex in the shower.

I think it's great when two low drive people find each other. However being a working woman in a predominantly male industry there are loads and loaes of people having affairs. I'm sure this is what keeps one of the "happy" partners happy in a sexless marriage.

right bc the woman who has 6 rounds of chemo needs to suck it up so her man doesn't have an affair...right.

Hello Straw Man! What percentage of low drive spouses who don't look for ways to meet their spouses half way do you suppose are undergoing chemo (or any other legitimate medical issue)?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where can single early 30s men find you women who just want a FWB to cool off?! Forget about paying us as escorts, just no strings fun...!

I would love a single early 30s guy...signed, late 40s woman in No.VA...tell me where to find you....

In my case it would certainly involve a hop on a plane every now and then Dealbreaker.....?

even better!!

Anonymous wrote:I do not understand how people are too exhausted to have sex. If its a weeknight it takes no longer that a shower to have sex. Speaking of showers, we quite often multitask and have sex in the shower.

I think it's great when two low drive people find each other. However being a working woman in a predominantly male industry there are loads and loaes of people having affairs. I'm sure this is what keeps one of the "happy" partners happy in a sexless marriage.

I agree. I'm in the defense industry, and the testosterone just flies. And it's not just the men having affairs, either.

Anonymous wrote:I've gone months, but that was due to pregnancy.

I have a friend who has never had sex with her husband. And other than that, they are happy together.

Too bad she married a gay man.

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Anonymous wrote:Where can single early 30s men find you women who just want a FWB to cool off?! Forget about paying us as escorts, just no strings fun...!

I would love a single early 30s guy...signed, late 40s woman in No.VA...tell me where to find you....

In my case it would certainly involve a hop on a plane every now and then Dealbreaker.....?

Anonymous wrote:I do not understand how people are too exhausted to have sex. If its a weeknight it takes no longer that a shower to have sex. Speaking of showers, we quite often multitask and have sex in the shower.

I think it's great when two low drive people find each other. However being a working woman in a predominantly male industry there are loads and loaes of people having affairs. I'm sure this is what keeps one of the "happy" partners happy in a sexless marriage.

right bc the woman who has 6 rounds of chemo needs to suck it up so her man doesn't have an affair...right.

I do not understand how people are too exhausted to have sex. If its a weeknight it takes no longer that a shower to have sex. Speaking of showers, we quite often multitask and have sex in the shower.

I think it's great when two low drive people find each other. However being a working woman in a predominantly male industry there are loads and loaes of people having affairs. I'm sure this is what keeps one of the "happy" partners happy in a sexless marriage.

Anonymous wrote:Where can single early 30s men find you women who just want a FWB to cool off?! Forget about paying us as escorts, just no strings fun...!

I would love a single early 30s guy...signed, late 40s woman in No.VA...tell me where to find you....

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Anonymous wrote:My dh and I routinely go a month. We are really in love and have a happy marriage. And we snuggle all the time, of course. Sometimes it's just a while before I have the energy again!

Same here. I think this can be totally normal in a happy healthy relationship but on DCUM it is grounds for divorce!

It depends on the couple. I'm the wife, and I want to have sex 100% of the time when I snuggle with my spouse.

Anonymous wrote:I've gone months, but that was due to pregnancy.

I have a friend who has never had sex with her husband. And other than that, they are happy together.

Why did they get married? Are they planning to ever have sex?

Holy shit people!

8 weeks...post partum.

We are a 3xs a week couple.

Over a year in my 20s when I was single. Since getting married, the longest is about 5 weeks, post partum.

Six months during my twin pregnancy.

23:42 - I hope what your ex is doing turns out to be a phase that passes quickly and then she starts making better choices! Not to be a judgy mcjudgerson - if people want to have fun, that's cool. I actually know a couple of people who met their spouses on craigslist. But if she's meeting strangers who scare her, that could turn ugly.

7:58 - I know women who will go for the FWB situation when they're not in a real relationship! The key is that most women have an idea in their head of what makes a guy suitable for a long-term thing. If you don't fit that idea in some way but you are cool to hang out with and treat them well, they will often be your FWB. My last FWB was someone who "doesn't do" relationships and never wants kids or stepkids - both of those things make him incompatible with me - but he's a cool guy so we had a good FWB thing going for awhile. The one before that was too neurotic for me, prefers a DC condo over an Arlington house and he's Jewish. (I'm Episcopalian.) Those differences would have made a real relationship difficult, but other aspects of his personality (funny, very smart) made him a great FWB.