Anonymous wrote:
Maybe I'm just dumb, but I have a hard time understanding really boring, complicated material, which made up most of my legal studies.
I'm a lawyer who sort of likes things that are boring and complicated, but I don't think it is reasonable to characterize all law as consisting of such matters. There are lots of practice areas (family law etc.) that are more interesting and understandable, if less lucrative.
OP here. Thanks for your insight about this. Am I just dumb? I graduated with honors from high school and went to an Ivy League college and graduated with honors from there. But honestly I have an incredibly difficult time understanding things that are boring and complicated. What do you like about boring or complicated things? I can't concentrate and zone out when I am reading such things. For instance, health insurance. I cannot seem to understand my health insurance policy or how the benefits work, and whenever I call the health insurance company to ask a question I don't understand what they are telling me. So my husband handles this. Investments are another area that I don't understand, and I also find it boring and complicated. I'm a fully functioning person otherwise, but boring or complicated things are very hard for me to understand. Do I have some sort of learning disability?
FWIW, I took organic chemistry in college and got an A, so I am capable of understanding some boring and complicated material.
Anonymous wrote:
With a JD/MSW, you would be a huge find for any agency that works with domestic violence or child abuse victims. You'd be a treasure as a family law attorney. You'd be a find for a prosecutor's office or a public defender's office. You'd be a great probation/parole officer. You'd be a good mediator. You'd be a good counselor for anyone who is working a drug court or a diversion court. You'd be good in juvenile court, on either side.
You need a license for some of that, but you can pass the bar, if you want to. If you take BarBri, they will spoon feed you what you need to know to take the bar exam.
Have you ever been assessed for ADHD? It frequently looks way more inattentive, than hyperactive, in women. That might be part of your problem with being unable to focus on stuff that doesn't interest you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Social work sucks, I'd go to law. Why don't you try being a legal advocate for kids?
OP here. That's a good suggestion. The problem is, I don't think I would be a very good lawyer. I honestly didn't understand much of the material in law school, though I got almost all A's just through memorizing a bunch of stuff and being able to regurgitate on exams. But the law honestly never made sense to me. I'm more of a creative thinker. I'm not a very rational thinker, to be honest.
Plus I've been out of law school now so long that I do not remember anything. I don't remember anything from legal research classes, either.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. When I pursued the JD/MSW degree, my main interests were in social work, but I thought I'd get the JD as well to have more options. Part of the issue is that I found most legal stuff I studied/dealt with to be incredibly boring and hard to understand. Maybe I'm just dumb, but I have a hard time understanding really boring, complicated material, which made up most of my legal studies.
Social work appealed to me more, and I liked feeling like I was really making a difference in my job. I can see going back to social work, though it took me almost a year to find my social work job, so it's not an easy job market for someone without the LCSW.
I always had difficulty choosing a career. There was nothing I felt I was especially good at/leaned toward in college, and ever since graduating with my JD/MSW I have had a lot of career indecision.
Like I said in my original post, my career has been one failure after another. I am hoping to turn over a new leaf and pursue something I'm both interested in and good at.
If I was able to go back to college and start over, I would probably have chosen something in the health professions: become a physical therapist, speech pathologist, optometrist, occupational therapist or nurse. I always gravitated more toward the health professions but I was always terrible at math and science, so I discouraged myself from pursuing them, though in college I was on the pre-med track for awhile.
It's probably too late now to go back for a third degree, and I'd feel ridiculous in doing so while my first two degrees sit there gathering dust.
Have you thought about being a social worker in the public school? Your skills are needed there, and it's a very rewarding job.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I guess I'm really down on myself because I've had so many career failures--my whole career is a failure. I do well in school but not very well in the work environment. I failed at my legal jobs and I failed at my social work job.
My social work job focused on geriatric case management and counseling. I loved this field and felt I was very good at it. I think it might be hard for me to find a job in geriatric case management with my limited experience though. I don't have enough experience to start my own business as a geriatric case manager but this is a goal of mine.
Any other suggestions for me? Some people suggested the policy analyst type positions but honestly this sounds very boring to me. It sounds like a lot of writing boring research reports--I dread that sort of task. I like writing but I like writing more practical things, such as assessments, progress notes, etc.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I guess I'm really down on myself because I've had so many career failures--my whole career is a failure. I do well in school but not very well in the work environment. I failed at my legal jobs and I failed at my social work job.
My social work job focused on geriatric case management and counseling. I loved this field and felt I was very good at it. I think it might be hard for me to find a job in geriatric case management with my limited experience though. I don't have enough experience to start my own business as a geriatric case manager but this is a goal of mine.
Any other suggestions for me? Some people suggested the policy analyst type positions but honestly this sounds very boring to me. It sounds like a lot of writing boring research reports--I dread that sort of task. I like writing but I like writing more practical things, such as assessments, progress notes, etc.
I guess I'm really down on myself because I've had so many career failures--my whole career is a failure. I do well in school but not very well in the work environment. I failed at my legal jobs and I failed at my social work job.