Let her wear it! It will seem way more enticing if you make it off limits.

I think it's useful to give some time and thought to why it makes you uncomfortable. Does it feel like she is becoming sexualized too early? Does it make you worry she'll get unwanted (or wanted?) attention from boys or men? How you address the situation probably depends on whether you're trying to do what's best for her or are reacting to something you're feeling, and how you can mesh the realities of the world and your own feelings with what she wants and why.

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Anonymous wrote:I actually think strapless tops are pretty modest--they usually cut straight across, so very little cleavage is showing.

Agree. I really don't get the inappropriate comments.

Now, I don't like them or find them flattering. But that is due to cutting you straight across. But I wouldn't care if my DD wanted to wear one in the summer

All of you against strapless are projecting your own issues into the clothing.

I have 3 DDs and as long as nothing indecent is showing, I’m not regulating their clothes. I have spent years (and still do) instilling my values. Policing their clothes has nothing to do with it.

Anonymous wrote:I actually think strapless tops are pretty modest--they usually cut straight across, so very little cleavage is showing.

Agree. I really don't get the inappropriate comments.

Now, I don't like them or find them flattering. But that is due to cutting you straight across. But I wouldn't care if my DD wanted to wear one in the summer

I actually think strapless tops are pretty modest--they usually cut straight across, so very little cleavage is showing.

Anonymous wrote:It's not allowed at DD's school, and my general rule is I won't spend more than $100 on clothing she can't wear 5/7 days a week.

How uptight that you have an actual rule you spent time thinking about.

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Anonymous wrote:Never. My DD was too busty to wear strapless tops.

There are women with double D breasts who wear strapless. Maybe your daughter has saggy ones.

Just because they do, doesn't mean they should.

All natural D breasts have some sag. So if yours have none, we all know you bought them.

Anonymous wrote:Um did you call friends mom and let her know her kid gave a shirt away?

You are crazy.

Anonymous wrote:Never. My DD was too busty to wear strapless tops.

There are women with double D breasts who wear strapless. Maybe your daughter has saggy ones.

seven years.... still going crazy, er, strong.

Anonymous wrote:definitely not before high school

+1

Anonymous wrote:My 12 year old DD came home from a friends house in a strapless top. I was so surprised i didnt even know how to react but i told her to change immediately and we would have talk later. "Her friend gave it to her", i know she just asked if she could have it because she knows i would never buy one for her. The thing is its quite casual, nothing provocative and it would be nice for a warm day. Now Im honestly torn whether or not i should let her keep it. What do you say?

I think its ok for your DD but it depends on your DD body figure.

Um did you call friends mom and let her know her kid gave a shirt away?

Anonymous wrote:DD is 17. I insist that she wears a strapless bra with many of her dresses because I do not like bra strap showing. However, she does not wear strapless tops. Even when she wears tanks, she wears a open shirt on top.

Even for homecoming and stuff - she has always worn dresses that had straps. I am sure if she finds a strapless dress that looks awesome and appropriate for the occasion, she will wear it.

What in the actual?

You have a preference against your bra strap showing so you impose your preference on someone else?

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I'm 11 years old should I wear a trank top please answer