Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I bet this is the poster who wants full custody of her husbands toddler they just found out about. In that thread, she is expecting and wants to avoid CSP by getting custody and providing daycare for both her expected child and DH's child so she can be a SAHM and avoid child support

I suspect that her hubby cheated on her and got this woman pregnant, which is why he is avoiding paternity and OP wants to screw over the ex.

His child from a prior relationship. It's complicated. Will they seize joint accounts or just a percentage




Do you just randomly post stuff to see what will stick?

Anonymous wrote:I bet this is the poster who wants full custody of her husbands toddler they just found out about. In that thread, she is expecting and wants to avoid CSP by getting custody and providing daycare for both her expected child and DH's child so she can be a SAHM and avoid child support

I suspect that her hubby cheated on her and got this woman pregnant, which is why he is avoiding paternity and OP wants to screw over the ex.

Same in MD. My ex is routinely behind by $1,000+ and they don't do anything except take any tax refund that might be coming to him. It takes until the late summer for me to get it.

If he lives in DC nothing will happen any time soon. Mine was $10k behind and I had to take him to court again to let the court know. They were able to get $300 out of his pockets that day, and I agreed to lower the payments to get him to pay anything.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I *think* they can seize anything his name is on, and rightly so.

You don't say why he is in arrears. If it's true financial hardship, can he not ask for a variance order?

We are expanding our family

congratulations
All the best for you and the precious little one

Anonymous wrote:I bet this is the poster who wants full custody of her husbands toddler they just found out about. In that thread, she is expecting and wants to avoid CSP by getting custody and providing daycare for both her expected child and DH's child so she can be a SAHM and avoid child support

Omg!! Yes!! For sure!!

I bet this is the poster who wants full custody of her husbands toddler they just found out about. In that thread, she is expecting and wants to avoid CSP by getting custody and providing daycare for both her expected child and DH's child so she can be a SAHM and avoid child support

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If he is in arrears, they can take money from any account with his name on it. They can also take any income tax refund from a joint filling.

+1

She could file injured spouse and they wouldn't seize her portion of the tax return.

It's easier to just create separate bank accounts.

Why would they seize his accounts anyway? If he's not in arrears yet, once they determine that he owes arrears, he can just set up a payment plan and that money gets added to the monthly support obligation until it is paid off.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I *think* they can seize anything his name is on, and rightly so.

You don't say why he is in arrears. If it's true financial hardship, can he not ask for a variance order?

We are expanding our family

You may have a different perspective on this in a few years, I suspect.

Go after everything.

Anonymous wrote:$10 says OP is hard at work separating accounts. Or maybe even arranging a handy divorce.