Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 17:57     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
4 kids by 3 different women tells me he isn't really a parent. When you're putting in the time and effort to be an active parent, you're unlikely to be this careless about having children spread about.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:24     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely the answer is yes because 5/4 is a more aesthetic number combination. Write back next year and tell us how it all works out.

Girl please.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:23     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Absolutely the answer is yes because 5/4 is a more aesthetic number combination. Write back next year and tell us how it all works out.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:19     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:OP, is he involved with his kids? Does he spend time with them?

I'd say no, for these reasons:

1) If he's got three kids from three different moms, if he is an involved dad, then all he does in his spare time is go from house to house to attend your children. And he has no money because he is making under 200K and supporting them all.

2) If he is NOT going house to house caring for all his children, and instead he's looking around for whom else to boink, then that's pretty sh***y for the kids. And he's a lame-ass dad.

3) If he's a lame-ass dad, if you have a kid with him, he's going to be a lame-ass with your little snowflake as well. And if he's NOT a lame-ass dad, your snowflake will not get much of him because he's busy tending to the others.


This exactly. It's more about the fact that he's got too much going on, and if he doesn't, then he is a deadbeat dad. 4 kids by 3 different women in his mid 30s means he wasn't very careful, and I wouldn't think his judgment was was very good. Honestly, once you have those first 2, you start buying some condoms!!
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:15     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Hells no I couldn't date this. Plus if you get married, all these baby mommas can come and get portions of your paycheck for their child support.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:15     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:There's always someone willing. Hear stories women marrying convicted murderers on death row they've never met just exchanged a few letters with. There's always someone willing.


yikes
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:14     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:PG County


No, he is not AA
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 15:13     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Four kids by three different women by his mid 30s? Wow, what a disaster.


Ummmm.... are you dating OMB guy Peter Orszag?

HA ! not as much money.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 14:54     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
PG County
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 14:53     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:Like it or not, guys like this will genetically rule humanity in the future. People who have regular homes with supportive parents that have no drama/no divorce, have what, average two kids? How is this going to work out in the future from a Darwinian viewpoint? Maybe he has valuable genetic stock? Does anyone think he is more valuable now than other men because he has succeeded in spreading his seed?


You've seen Idiocracy too many times.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 14:32     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Does he know how babies are made? How to wear a condom? How do you have that many kids by different women?!!?

Is he a good dad? Does he have 50/50 custody? His parenting skills would show you what kind of man he is.


He thinks so. No. And I forgot about another possible 3 kids (to be fair one set of twins). That would be 7 kids, 5 different mothers. - OP


Come on, you can admit it, you're kinda turned on by it.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 14:25     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:Four kids by three different women by his mid 30s? Wow, what a disaster.


Ummmm.... are you dating OMB guy Peter Orszag?
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 13:19     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
No.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 13:07     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am not a judgmental person by nature so it would all depend on his age as well as the situation(s).



Mid 30s salary under 200.


Don't forget he probably spends most of that on child support payments.
Anonymous
Post 08/25/2014 13:01     Subject: Would you date a guy with 4/3?
Anonymous wrote:no, my standards are higher.

+1

I'd drop him like a hot potato.
He has no redeeming qualities.