Anonymous
Post 08/19/2014 04:08     Subject: Exclusive talk and yet he still hasn't deleted his profile

I would ignore it and not bring it up again...If you do, be prepared for him to back off.

I understand you checking up on him...I would do the exact SAME thing too OP!

But don't let him know you are doing so.

Just act non-nonchalant about it and I am sure that he will delete it soon.

Guys are different than us in that they do not get to stuff like this as soon as we do.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2014 09:55     Subject: Exclusive talk and yet he still hasn't deleted his profile

OP, you are spying on him and acting kind of crazy. I would strongly advise NOT telling him that, but instead, it sounds like you maybe should focus on developing the relationship based on the feedback he's actually given you - that he feels the same was you - and make your decisions based on that, not based on perceived activity on the site where you met. If he's going on dates with you 2-4x per week, he's invested. The best way for you to kill a new relationship is to get all suspicious and second guess things. Stop doing that.