OP, you are spying on him and acting kind of crazy. I would strongly advise NOT telling him that, but instead, it sounds like you maybe should focus on developing the relationship based on the feedback he's actually given you - that he feels the same was you - and make your decisions based on that, not based on perceived activity on the site where you met. If he's going on dates with you 2-4x per week, he's invested. The best way for you to kill a new relationship is to get all suspicious and second guess things. Stop doing that.