Muslima wrote:Did you even read what you copied/pasted? Your post said that Muslim women are told in mosques and by their husbands that they should reproduce. "Thus the wishes of the religious leaders and the husbands often end up trumping the wishes of the woman if she doesn't want anymore children"
And I repeat, it is a fabrication. In what Mosques are Women who don't want to reproduce being forced to reproduce to increase the Ummah? You copied and pasted someone's response to teh question :"
I noticed that people are of two types: those who encourage us to have few children and those who encourage us to have a lot of children. Is there is evidence to support either of these two opinions?.
Does Islam encourage us to have children? Yes, we see children as a blessing but to make the leap from there and say that Muslim Women are trumping their wishes to satisfy their religious leaders and husbands is a pure fabrication. Muslim Women all over the world use birth control, the only thing that is forbidden in Islam is abortion, unless it is done for medical reasons. Your comments again follow the same narrative that somehow Millions of educated Muslim women who are active within their societies are not able to think for themselves or study their religion independent of male influence. This is highly misogynistic and portray all Muslim women as complacent and voiceless individuals and that is simply not true.
Okay well let's all think of all the Muslim families we know. How many kids do they have? I've known over 10 families and not one has 2 or less children. The average is 4-6 kids per family and that is the average worldwide.
There is a reason for a lot of tension in Europe right now. The population of Muslims is set to increase in ten years, this is mostly a projection from records of live births while immigration or conversion also have some impact. Now think what it will be in 20 years, 50 years. There are similar expected increases in Canada and India.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muslim_population_growth
"According to the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace, the World Christian Database as of 2007 estimated the six fastest-growing religions of the world to be Islam (1.84%), the Bahá'í Faith (1.7%), Sikhism (1.62%), Jainism (1.57%), Hinduism (1.52%), and Christianity (1.32%).
High birth rates were cited as the reason for the growth.[25]''
Now we all remember when Catholics were the ones seen as having lots of children, that was/is due to their disbelief in birth control methods, yet this is not the reason in Islam since birth control is acceptable.
I see absolutely nothing wrong for wanting to have a large family, but when it is very concentrated to particular groups, one has to question it. Islam is a very peaceful religion, until it starts to become a larger percentage of a population. Then slowly more demands are placed on the host country- wanting sharia courts, wanting to be able to be veiled even when security is an issue, demanding women only pool hours, demanding schools to adjust calendars as per their holidays, etc. It goes from being a personal religion, to a change in the greater community, culture, and government. One only needs to study current events and historical evidence of this.
We don't see it here much in the U.S...yet. But you see how it starts in other parts of the world and then the tensions start to arise, tensions lead to conflict, etc, etc.
I'm not saying there are no peaceful followers of Islam. Of course there are and it obvious that you are and I completely respect your belief in your faith and how you believe and live by your faith. However putting blinders on towards the parts that are not so becoming doesn't make them less there.