Anonymous wrote:
Sorry, I confess to looking down on people like OP. Actually I'm scandalized.
Just because OP can afford to, OP is missing out on this essential life skill, and eating out constantly which is extremely unhealthy - even if you always pick what you imagine to be healthy options, they're always much too full of hidden fat, sugar and salt! And your children have been eating like this since they were on solid food???!!!
You are hurting your family's health, OP, by eating like this. And I would be leery of the services of a personal chef too, unless he comes recommended by people who eat really healthy, because you obviously won't be able to tell if he or she cooks with too much salt or fat, since you're used to restaurant fare.
Ugh. That's the evil of having too much money right there. You're an example of what not to do, OP.
And for the record, I couldn't cook when I had DC1. I decided I would eat and cook healthy meals for his sake, and managed to achieve this in a few years while working more than full-time. I spend $700-800 a month at Whole Foods for a family of 4, and cook mostly from scratch.
Come on, learn to cook.
You and your husband can learn with your kids, it will probably be a really meaningful experience!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The previous posters suggestions are all great bandaid suggestions. Sign up for one of them. However, you guys need to learn how to cook. Not like gourmet fancy things, but enough to do a stir fry, pasta sauce, Mac and cheese, brownies, baked chicken for your kids. I live in md, so none of my cooking suggestions would be helpful. I hope someone else can recc a place for classes.
I agree but for a different reason.....to be an example for your children. Please try to learn to cook and learn to enjoy cooking a few things so your kids can be part of the cooking process when they are the right age. If they never see you cook, they'll think that's normal and never want to learn. It's a very important life skill.
My husband can't cook anything (well, he can do boxed mac and cheese) and I hate that he can't help now that we have a baby - it's all on me. I would have appreciated his mother teaching him something (even though she's a shitty cook).
It CAN be fun if you don't act defeated out of the gate. Hire a chef to come teach you a few basic things.
we love soupergirl. I've heard good things about healthybites. However, for $3k a month, hire a personal chef and try to learn from them as well.
Anonymous wrote:why not sign up for some cooking classes
Anonymous wrote:If you can read, you can cook. You are just lazy.