Anonymous
Post 07/16/2014 07:34     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Whatever a typical campus is... I feel very confident that my child will thrive at whatever school he gets to attend. No worries.

Good for you that your kid is a boy.

I have a boy (and a girl). I worry plenty. "Thriving" in academics has zero to do with something slipped in a drink, an underage girl saying she's 19, you own kids' poor choices. I give my kids the typical talk/warnings and off they go. But yes I worry.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2014 07:29     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:Whatever a typical campus is... I feel very confident that my child will thrive at whatever school he gets to attend. No worries.

Good for you that your kid is a boy.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 16:42     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I never heard of a male who had sex with a female against his will. Anyone else?


Yes. People use to also think that men could not be victims of domestic violence.

Girls think everybody wants to have sex with their nastiness... not true.

I'm sorry. Please explain how a girl can force herself on a guy.

Anyone?
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 16:42     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I never heard of a male who had sex with a female against his will. Anyone else?


Yes. People use to also think that men could not be victims of domestic violence.

Girls think everybody wants to have sex with their nastiness... not true.

I'm sorry. Please explain how a girl can force herself on a guy.


They can go in their room when they are passed out and start sucking... you have never done this when your H is a sleep... you should try it... he will be pleasantly surprised.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 16:39     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I never heard of a male who had sex with a female against his will. Anyone else?


Yes. People use to also think that men could not be victims of domestic violence.

Girls think everybody wants to have sex with their nastiness... not true.

I'm sorry. Please explain how a girl can force herself on a guy.


Wow. You really are a full-blown idiot.

Do you seriously believe that just because a man (or woman) gets aroused, it means he (or she) consents?

Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 16:38     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Whatever a typical campus is... I feel very confident that my child will thrive at whatever school he gets to attend. No worries.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 16:28     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I never heard of a male who had sex with a female against his will. Anyone else?


Yes. People use to also think that men could not be victims of domestic violence.

Girls think everybody wants to have sex with their nastiness... not true.

I'm sorry. Please explain how a girl can force herself on a guy.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 15:53     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:I never heard of a male who had sex with a female against his will. Anyone else?


Yes. People use to also think that men could not be victims of domestic violence.

Girls think everybody wants to have sex with their nastiness... not true.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 14:58     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
I never heard of a male who had sex with a female against his will. Anyone else?
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 13:23     Subject: Re:Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
The American Psychological Association is the largest scientific and profession organization representing psychology in the United States. Their study, "Sexual Coercion Context and Psychosocial Correlates Among Diverse Males," was published in the APA journal Psychology of Men and Masculinity. The study revealed that 43% of high school and college men report being involved in "unwanted sexual contact."

The APA study sought to explore sexual coercion in men, and if or how they're influenced or affected by female behavior. The researchers noted, "sexual coercion that resulted in sexual intercourse was associated with greater sexual risk-taking and alcohol use. Verbal and substance coercion were associated with psychological distress, and substance coercion was also associated with sexual risk-taking," in the study.

Among the 284 young male participants, 95% reported that the female acquaintance was the aggressor in their sexual encounter,  which ranged from kissing and fondling to intercourse. Although the sample pool was relatively small, nearly half of the young males said they ended up having sex against their will, with 10% reporting sex was attempted and the other 40% noting the encounter resulted in only kissing or fondling.


http://www.scienceworldreport.com/articles/14122/20140421/women-force-men-sex-high-percentage-young-report-unwanted-relations.htm

I think this is b/c female have been taught that when they decide to have sex/want someone there is no choice for the male. Just watch the movies/tv etc.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 13:11     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
DS had a female companion “study buddy” who had a tendency to get fall on the ground drunk. The relationship was totally platonic except when the girl was drinking when she (on multiple occasions) who tell DS “I want you to rape me” or “I wish you would just rape me.” Wisely DS resisted the offer – “rape” is a scary word. The only safe thing for a male to do is to never under any circumstances engage in first time intercourse with a female who is drunk. There are victims are both sides of “drunk hookups” – girls who are raped and boys who are accused falsely. The issue is very complex, but the solution is simple: no drunk hookups –ever.
Anonymous
Post 07/15/2014 12:48     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Anonymous wrote:"Put" your "kid"? really op? My 18 year old is an adult.

How so? You mean legally, right?
Anonymous
Post 07/14/2014 16:21     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
"Put" your "kid"? really op? My 18 year old is an adult.
Anonymous
Post 07/14/2014 15:17     Subject: Re:Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
I mean it's not like you are sending your kids to a war zone in Afghanistan, which is another place 18 year olds can be sent if they make other life choices.

The degree of hellicoptering on this board is absurd.
Anonymous
Post 07/14/2014 14:08     Subject: Is a typical college campus really a safe place to put your 17 or 18 year old kid?
Several colleges are under review for Title IX violations for not protecting women students vs. rape. So, I don't know why you are getting such casual responses OP.