Good for you OP (and for you H that he's accomplished his transformation). Ignore the ridiculous PPs. It's not unusual at all for friends to comment on a friend's spouse's dramatic physical improvement, nor is it unusual for you to be turned on by his improved looks and his enhanced status as a man that others find desirable. This is a common effect and it works on both genders.

Anonymous wrote:Sigh. I wish my husband would do this. He also has about 40 pounds to lose but has no motivation. He has lost the weight before but was still sort of "skinny fat." If he could do that again AND do a little working out I know it would help. I am trying very hard to stay in shape for my own self-esteem and health, and I just wish he would too. Jealous.

Blow jobs are an inducement.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

This. Your DH is a weirdo OP

Mileage definitely varies on this one. My wife would not only be "no" but "hell no" on the waking up to intercourse option. But, I know from reading various married sex life forums that there are more than a few women who seem to think this is hot. Certainly if I woke up to my wife having her way with me, I'd love it.

I have woken up mid act. Normally it's hot, unless I'm completely exhausted. Often i'm dreaming that I'm havin sex only to wake up due to a strong orgasm. Who wouldnt want to wake up to the best feeling in the world? I thought this was normal for married couples. Huh.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is fantasizing about your friends. Hence the increase in the sex.

OMG the critical reading skills on this forum are miserable. Have you read the OP?? She said SHE is the one driving for more sex and that her DH is thrilled by the change in her drive. One can easily read between the lines that he has alway been the high drive partner.

I say good for OP. Who doesn't want a DH who gets his fat ass in shape and becomes desireable once again? Maybe none of you ever dated, let alone married someone who is a gene pool winner.

Gene pool winners don't give a shit what happens after the genes have been passed, so long as their sons are popular with the ladies and their daughters are fertile.

Ok?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is fantasizing about your friends. Hence the increase in the sex.

OMG the critical reading skills on this forum are miserable. Have you read the OP?? She said SHE is the one driving for more sex and that her DH is thrilled by the change in her drive. One can easily read between the lines that he has alway been the high drive partner.

I say good for OP. Who doesn't want a DH who gets his fat ass in shape and becomes desireable once again? Maybe none of you ever dated, let alone married someone who is a gene pool winner.

Gene pool winners don't give a shit what happens after the genes have been passed, so long as their sons are popular with the ladies and their daughters are fertile.

Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is fantasizing about your friends. Hence the increase in the sex.

OMG the critical reading skills on this forum are miserable. Have you read the OP?? She said SHE is the one driving for more sex and that her DH is thrilled by the change in her drive. One can easily read between the lines that he has alway been the high drive partner.

I say good for OP. Who doesn't want a DH who gets his fat ass in shape and becomes desireable once again? Maybe none of you ever dated, let alone married someone who is a gene pool winner.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

This. Your DH is a weirdo OP

Mileage definitely varies on this one. My wife would not only be "no" but "hell no" on the waking up to intercourse option. But, I know from reading various married sex life forums that there are more than a few women who seem to think this is hot. Certainly if I woke up to my wife having her way with me, I'd love it.

Do they know from experience that it is hot? Or do they just think it would be hot? Unfortunately, the only way to find out is to do it and then be prepared for the consequences.

Oh, hard telling -- I'm getting this from more or less anonymous people on the Internet. But, it sounds like these are couples who have talked about it before hand, agreed they were both cool with it, and one spouse woke the other one up with sex & they both enjoyed the experience. I'll go ahead an be sexist and suggest that, without talking about it first, it's a low risk proposition for a wife to wake up the husband with a blow job or a fuck. Hubby is well-advised to get the green light before penetrating his unconscious wife -- there is a fine line, mostly composed of his wife's subjective impressions, between "hot" and "jail time."

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Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

This. Your DH is a weirdo OP

Mileage definitely varies on this one. My wife would not only be "no" but "hell no" on the waking up to intercourse option. But, I know from reading various married sex life forums that there are more than a few women who seem to think this is hot. Certainly if I woke up to my wife having her way with me, I'd love it.

Do they know from experience that it is hot? Or do they just think it would be hot? Unfortunately, the only way to find out is to do it and then be prepared for the consequences.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

This. Your DH is a weirdo OP

Mileage definitely varies on this one. My wife would not only be "no" but "hell no" on the waking up to intercourse option. But, I know from reading various married sex life forums that there are more than a few women who seem to think this is hot. Certainly if I woke up to my wife having her way with me, I'd love it.

OP, your husband is fantasizing about your friends. Hence the increase in the sex.

Has their been an affair yet? If not, all this discussion about your drunk girlfriends finding your husband very attractive is just boring and bragging. Get back to us when the affair happens.

In the meantime enjoy some light tabloid reading about the English soccer player whose teammate's wife, and his wife's good friend (they used to vacation together), apparently and allegedly found him very attractive.

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Anonymous wrote:Keep him away from your covetous, "non-conservative" friends, or you will one day find your marriage has gone in a "non-conservative" direction. (BTW, who tells their good friends that they are really attracted to their husbands?)

LOL, you are right, I suppose my DH won't be able to control himself. He's kind of an animal like that. Sigh...all men are the same, a bunch of out of control dogs.

The last time I let my dogs run loose around the neighborhood, I wound up with an unwanted litter. I thought that I was being so progressive, free-spirited, open-minded, and "in touch" with my animals' nature by letting them cavort and run free, as nature intended. Lesson learned. I hope that you enjoy your litter, they are an awful lot of work.

You consider your DH a dog? I'm sorry you picked the wrong guy.

Then why did you criticize this poor poster, OP, calling their DH out as a dog? Seems that previous poster's point went above your head as well. People who live in glass houses should not throw stones.

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Anonymous wrote:Keep him away from your covetous, "non-conservative" friends, or you will one day find your marriage has gone in a "non-conservative" direction. (BTW, who tells their good friends that they are really attracted to their husbands?)

LOL, you are right, I suppose my DH won't be able to control himself. He's kind of an animal like that. Sigh...all men are the same, a bunch of out of control dogs.

OP do you consider you DH a dog? I am so sorry you picked the wrong guy.

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Anonymous wrote:I love my guy and the sex is awesome, but if he stuck his dick in me while I was asleep, I'd be beyond pissed.

This. Your DH is a weirdo OP

Glad we came together then (no pun intended).

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Anonymous wrote:Keep him away from your covetous, "non-conservative" friends, or you will one day find your marriage has gone in a "non-conservative" direction. (BTW, who tells their good friends that they are really attracted to their husbands?)

LOL, you are right, I suppose my DH won't be able to control himself. He's kind of an animal like that. Sigh...all men are the same, a bunch of out of control dogs.

OP do you consider you DH a dog? I am so sorry you picked the wrong guy.