Anonymous wrote:"Did the date and it went we'll enough that we are going out tomorrow night."

I'm glad you had a good time, but are you looking to have a fling OP? Because an immediate second date often indicates that that is what's on a guy's mind.

Just a PSA if that is not what you're looking for (else you'll be posting in a few weeks that you're upset that your new guy disappeared after sleeping with him).

totally disagree. It's not just to get you in the sack - I think that's a such an insulting way to think about dating and guys specifically.

As someone back in the "market" and considered a highly eligible bachelor, dating, especially here in DC, is not easy and finding good, down-to-earth men/women is like hitting the lottery these days. So asking for and arranging a second date is a sign that he likes you and wants to see if there is more potential. This is what I do when I meet a woman who really captures my interest - on many levels not just physical attraction.

"Did the date and it went we'll enough that we are going out tomorrow night."

I'm glad you had a good time, but are you looking to have a fling OP? Because an immediate second date often indicates that that is what's on a guy's mind.

Just a PSA if that is not what you're looking for (else you'll be posting in a few weeks that you're upset that your new guy disappeared after sleeping with him).

Congrats!

Glad to hear it went well. And it's a great way to hold off sleeping with him too soon!