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Anonymous wrote:Yes, she's being inappropriate. I might reply to her and include your wife on the email and say something like, "great article! DW loves soccer, too, so added her on here so she could read it too." Make sure you let your wife know your concerns about this chick so it's clear you aren't encouraging it.

Since when is emailing someone about soccer inappropriate? Idiots.

Cause balls, right?

I'm thinking that a 13 year old boy wrote this. Maybe he's worried the hot neighbor is going to lure Dad away from Mom with her running shorts and sports bra.

are you an adult male that uses the term icky?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, she's being inappropriate. I might reply to her and include your wife on the email and say something like, "great article! DW loves soccer, too, so added her on here so she could read it too." Make sure you let your wife know your concerns about this chick so it's clear you aren't encouraging it.

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Just make sure your DW knows this woman is sending you emails. My DH gets emails from female friends all the time w/o me being cc'd on them. That's fine. I have no issues b/c I know about them; DH usually tells me when said friend emailed and what it was about.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, she's being inappropriate. I might reply to her and include your wife on the email and say something like, "great article! DW loves soccer, too, so added her on here so she could read it too." Make sure you let your wife know your concerns about this chick so it's clear you aren't encouraging it.

Since when is emailing someone about soccer inappropriate? Idiots.

Aren't you charming. I think it's inappropriate to email with someone else's husband who you aren't great friends with. I wouldn't appreciate if my neighbor's wife started emailing my husband regularly about various topics of interest for him. She likely isn't coming onto him but if it makes him uncomfortable, then it's inappropriate enough that he should send a polite, clear message that he doesn't want to communicate one-on-one w her.

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He is uncomfortable so he can ask her to stop emailing or he can do as another poster suggested and include his wife on the email.

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Anonymous wrote:Im pretty tired and have some brain fog but what is she doing that may be inappropriate?? I don't get it.

Even though we claim not to want to live under the Taliban, it is taboo for men and women to chat or send emails or be friends. It goes without saying any woman who does so wants sex from a married man.

Divorced woman here. I am SUPER careful not to email/call/text my male friends too much. I don't want a wife to get suspicious. I don't want her to see my number on someone's bill 20 times. I would never meet a married male friend for lunch. When we socialize the wives are there. My occasional emails about an interest we share, say, World Cup, are like ten words, "Hey, there's a game on channel 5 tonight at 8 PM" and that's it. I never write anything I wouldn't want his wife to see.

On the other hand, my ex husband had an affair with our next door neighbor that I caught due to constant cell phone calls, lunches and secret email addresses. I will never give any woman reason to feel the way I did.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, she's being inappropriate. I might reply to her and include your wife on the email and say something like, "great article! DW loves soccer, too, so added her on here so she could read it too." Make sure you let your wife know your concerns about this chick so it's clear you aren't encouraging it.

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Yep. Listen to the little voice in your head. She is being in appropriate. She's testing the waters.

Anonymous wrote:Im pretty tired and have some brain fog but what is she doing that may be inappropriate?? I don't get it.

Even though we claim not to want to live under the Taliban, it is taboo for men and women to chat or send emails or be friends. It goes without saying any woman who does so wants sex from a married man.

Can you be more specific about what is causing you to receive this "vibe" from her OP?

Because if it is just the fact that she is sending you e-mails and not including your wife, while this is not necessarily ideal, I wouldn't knock it completely unless these e-mails have any sexual content in them.

By any chance, do you + your wife share an e-mail account?

You know the answer, why are you entertaining yourself by posting.

Anonymous wrote:OP - don't let the hens here get under your skin - they all wish to have your problems or to be the other woman (i.e., an attractive MILF). but sadly, they're just sitting in the living room, greasy hair, no makeup, farting out last night's leftovers and hoping they might noticed by the old postman who again delivers the mail to the wrong house.

but back on point you're gut instinct will always serve you right - and listen to that little voice telling you there's danger on the horizon. sounds like she's fishing - maybe she got a vibe from you at a party or maybe it's the titillation of pissing off your wife that get's her hot for you. whatever it is, stay away (unless you want to of course).

OMG - The "hens" reference!

Agree that your neighbor is "fishing."

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well I am handsome and i get hit on women all the time. That being said, I find it weird that a married woman would start an email conversation with me and keep it going back and forth. Also she's been a bit "fun" at a party when she was drunk and suggested that we go to the bars.

If you were really handsome, (BS) and got hit on all the time, you certainly would have no need of DCUM to tell you how to handle it.

I believe you to be: A LIAR!

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Hold on now...there are a lotta people in this world with psychological disorders and people with inaccurate self-images (think anorexics who believe they're fat) so its possible dude ISN'T lying about being handsome and getting hit on FROM HIS SKEWED PERSPECTIVE... Granted in all likelihood to everyone else he's nowhere near as hot as he thinks and women never hit on him but in his own warped reality its true - so its not a lie if he genuinely believes it. I'm just saying...dude could be fucked in the head.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well I am handsome and i get hit on women all the time. That being said, I find it weird that a married woman would start an email conversation with me and keep it going back and forth. Also she's been a bit "fun" at a party when she was drunk and suggested that we go to the bars.

If you were really handsome, (BS) and got hit on all the time, you certainly would have no need of DCUM to tell you how to handle it.

I believe you to be: A LIAR!

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Anonymous wrote:This is so dumb. If it makes you uncomfortable, then shut it down. It's not complicated. But, no, it's not inappropriate at all. You just have a VERY low tolerance for communication from the opposite sex. Your prerogative.

This. If it makes you uncomfortable, stop. If you are unsure about the situation, stop. If you don't like it, stop. I really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, or even what the woman sending you emails thinks about you.

Yeah dude she's a friggin neighbor not your boss. Cut out the communicado and breathe easy!