Anonymous wrote:We didn't specifically save money for having a baby, but we did make sure our finances were in order. Our biggest expense is childcare and we made sure that we could still afford child care while paying bills and saving for retirement.
This is a slightly weird question to me. You really won't be able to save enough to afford having a baby before having a baby. But you should make sure that you can afford to pay child-related expenses as they pop up without going into debt.
Anonymous wrote:Zippo! Zilch! Nada!
To be fair, we were working very hard to pay off grad school and not have debt, and to save up for a house. I don't think we spent much "extra" on our kids, but we are crazy frugal. I think it all depends on your lifestyle pre-kids.