Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes let's all work on our neighborhood schools. And I am being serious about that too. With an added comment that I wish people would stop pitting neighborhood school against close-to-neighborhood school. Let each community do their work and applaud them for it.
The trouble is that your neighborhood school is not really "yours".
You and many others in your neighborhood will contribute to the success of your school. You'll give money to the PTA, chaperon field trips, lend a hand on beautification day, serve as a mystery reader, etc. Even before your DC gets to "your" school, you'll contribute by ensuring that DC is prepared to start K.
Years from now, however, when you school is successful, others will take your school away from you in the name of equity and social justice.
Anonymous wrote:Yes let's all work on our neighborhood schools. And I am being serious about that too. With an added comment that I wish people would stop pitting neighborhood school against close-to-neighborhood school. Let each community do their work and applaud them for it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice
I think you missed the whole point of my post. The lottery worked. I would have preferred my #1 choice, and am in the top 10 on their waitlist. In past years, being in the top ten would have guaranteed me a seat in my #1 choice because you'd have more people in the lottery who weren't serious about their choice, but just throwing their hat in anywhere they could.
and before you start shrieking at me about getting in to my #2 choice -- I was not one of your competitors in the PK lottery
I wasn't in the PK lottery so you may well have been my competitor. The lottery worked FOR YOU. It did not "work" for those of us shut out.
Anonymous wrote:The lottery is an advertisement for improving neighborhood by right schools.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was matched with my #2 school and have made peace with that choice. To me it seems to have worked very well, because I am waitlisted in the top ten at my #1 choice, and have not yet received a call asking if I want that spot. This means that those who matched truly wanted those spots, and weren't just grabbing as many spots as they could.
You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice?
Calm down. There is no need to begrudge someone who got into their second choice with a chance to get into their first. This is they way it should work. When the 1st choice is offered the 2nd choice will be relinquished to the next person who was pulled in the lottery that ranked the school, but received a placement at a lower ranked school. This is exactly how a lottery system should work. When you enter a lottery "winning" is based purely on luck. I was completely shut out last year, but received two offers at the beginning of the school year. The offers were actually for schools where my waitlist number was in the 100s. I am certain the same thing will happen this year for those who were shut out if they are willing to place their child on waitlists for upcoming schools. There are quite a few hidden gems.
Anonymous wrote:You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice
I think you missed the whole point of my post. The lottery worked. I would have preferred my #1 choice, and am in the top 10 on their waitlist. In past years, being in the top ten would have guaranteed me a seat in my #1 choice because you'd have more people in the lottery who weren't serious about their choice, but just throwing their hat in anywhere they could.
and before you start shrieking at me about getting in to my #2 choice -- I was not one of your competitors in the PK lottery
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was matched with my #2 school and have made peace with that choice. To me it seems to have worked very well, because I am waitlisted in the top ten at my #1 choice, and have not yet received a call asking if I want that spot. This means that those who matched truly wanted those spots, and weren't just grabbing as many spots as they could.
You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice?
Anonymous wrote:You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice
I think you missed the whole point of my post. The lottery worked. I would have preferred my #1 choice, and am in the top 10 on their waitlist. In past years, being in the top ten would have guaranteed me a seat in my #1 choice because you'd have more people in the lottery who weren't serious about their choice, but just throwing their hat in anywhere they could.
and before you start shrieking at me about getting in to my #2 choice -- I was not one of your competitors in the PK lottery
You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I was matched with my #2 school and have made peace with that choice. To me it seems to have worked very well, because I am waitlisted in the top ten at my #1 choice, and have not yet received a call asking if I want that spot. This means that those who matched truly wanted those spots, and weren't just grabbing as many spots as they could.
You've got to be effing joking! You've "made peace" with your number 2 spot?????!! Do you know how many of us didn't even get the option of "making peace with" our NUMBER TWELVE choice?
In all fairness to the first poster I also got in my 2nd choice and have made "peace" with it, but trust me it's nowhere any of you would be jealous of.
Well why did you list it #2 then?