Anonymous wrote:Parents of boys, PLEASE teach them to clean up after themselves!!
OP again - I hate to say this, but I do sort of resent that his mother/father didn't fucking fix this when he was a kid! We only have one bathroom - and, no joking, I would say that for a while there, it was a HUGE source of marital tension.
He's gotten a lot better. We do keep paper towels and spray on the back of the toilet, he is pretty good about cleaning up after himself now. But it's still really gross - and I just hate having to talk about it.
I don't want to withhold sex or anything to deal with it (he's got some sexual hangups that I do NOT want to exacerbate - plus, I like sex!). Maybe there is a medical issue. I suspect it is just laziness, though. And a poor upbringing.
Ugh, next place we live, we are going to have more than one bathroom...