Anonymous
Post 05/22/2014 12:42     Subject: DH says we should start counseling, I feel it is too late
Anonymous wrote:DO NOT do the legwork to find a counselor. If he is serious, he will get one. Give him a month to make an appointment. Then if there's no appointment, leave.


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Anonymous
Post 05/22/2014 11:55     Subject: DH says we should start counseling, I feel it is too late
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It sounds like your husband's drinking may be a big part of the problem.

I would give counseling a chance -- just, make sure to convey your concerns about your husband's drinking.
Yes, it may be that my thoughts jumped to the alcohol just because I have so many addicts in my family but OP's description did make me wonder if that is an issue.

OP here- DH's drinking is definitely an issue. He never has just one drink. Drinks heavily at every event where alcohol is served. Will down a 6 pack in less than an hour.


That is an alcoholic's drinking pattern.