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Anonymous wrote:Could someone please take a moment to focus on the question about the social climate at Duke in particular. Would an intelligent, active, but reserved student enjoy the social life at Duke?

Have multiple family connections to Duke. It's big enough that people who want to explore quieter interests can do so happily. Keep in mind this is one of the most selective universities in the country with a fair amount of outreach to minority students and others who diversify the campus.

On the other hand, if the student in question is the type who would affirmatively recoil at seeing frat boys being frat boys, or would take issue with the mere fact that there are sororities on campus, Duke is not a good place.

Actually, you might recoil at what frat boys being frat boys do these days. My nephew, a Dartmouth student who is not an introvert at all, but a very social kid and a varsity athlete, has been disgusted by some of the stuff he's seen at frat parties at Dartmouth. Binge drinking and date rape are not just good fun.

Anonymous wrote:They are both too Greek. How about CMU in Pittsburg.

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Do you really think that colleges should cost $60,000 a year? Do you really think that when the majority of students at colleges binge drink that this is a good idea and is just a phase that kids need to go through? Colleges could be a lot better if they were more affordable and students didn't waste their time getting drunk three nights a week. So sick of the idea that the "work hard, party hard mentality" is the key to life. We could do better than this.

Anonymous wrote:I didn't attend Duke or Wake Forest, but I know several people who went to Duke. Some who liked it, some who didn't. Duke is extremely competitive, about as competitive of many of the ivies--and the kids who attended were very intelligent, high achieving kids. I would say the people who liked Duke probably would have liked someplace like Dartmouth. Although it is a large enough school where someone who isn't into the frat scene/doesn't fit the mold I'm describing COULD find their space socially, in general the people who enjoyed Duke were very smart, very preppy/conventional types, and not necessarily the most intellectual kind of people. I don't mean that they aren't smart, driven, and high achieving--just they aren't the sort who want to sit down in a coffee shop and discuss Foucault at length. One of my friends was really put off by that kind of culture socially and transferred to University of Chicago, which was a much better fit for her. She is the sort of person who is very nerdy and intellectual.

We are planning to take junior DS to visit both ths spring. He is a serious kid, pretty much an introvert, who does not want to go to a big party school and would prefer a school with no frats or where frats aren't a big deal. We are from VA, for example, and he much prefers W&M to UVA because of size and social climate. We need to broaden his list. He isn't eager to go much farther north or more than about 6-8hours away. Can anyone tell me whether a kid like this could be happy at either of these schools? TIA. I have gotten a lot of good info from this forum

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Anonymous wrote:Could someone please take a moment to focus on the question about the social climate at Duke in particular. Would an intelligent, active, but reserved student enjoy the social life at Duke?

Have multiple family connections to Duke. It's big enough that people who want to explore quieter interests can do so happily. Keep in mind this is one of the most selective universities in the country with a fair amount of outreach to minority students and others who diversify the campus.

On the other hand, if the student in question is the type who would affirmatively recoil at seeing frat boys being frat boys, or would take issue with the mere fact that there are sororities on campus, Duke is not a good place.

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Could someone please take a moment to focus on the question about the social climate at Duke in particular. Would an intelligent, active, but reserved student enjoy the social life at Duke?

Do the Greek organizations at Duke have housing?
Sixteen (16) of the 17 IFC, and all nine (9) of the Panhellenic chapters enjoy housing through dedicated areas of the residence halls called “sections.” Generally, sections include common areas, study space, storage areas, and contiguous bedrooms.  Our Multicultural or Multicultural Greek Council (MCG) shares one section which houses members from several MCG chapters. Typically, all sophomore members will live in a fraternity/sorority section, but many juniors and seniors who continue to reside on campus will choose to live in section as well. Members living in section maintain a contract not with the fraternity itself, but through the University Housing office. As such, these areas are maintained by university housing staff and are subject to housing rules and regulations. The Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life provides organizations without a designated living area with alternate storage space on campus, and works with each group to obtain rooms for the organizations’ various events and meetings.  The maps linked to below show the current locations of the chapter sections:

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Anonymous wrote:Most colleges are overpriced.
Most colleges have way too many students that binge drink.
Yet we still drive ourselves crazy trying to figure out where our student will fit in without going broke or hoping our child does not drink themselves to death.
There is really something wrong with the entire system of college.

Our colleges and universities are among the few things we still do really well in this country and are the envy of the world. You need another hobby.

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Anonymous wrote:
Most colleges are overpriced.
Most colleges have way too many students that binge drink.
Yet we still drive ourselves crazy trying to figure out where our student will fit in without going broke or hoping our child does not drink themselves to death.
There is really something wrong with the entire system of college.


Our colleges and universities are among the few things we still do really well in this country and are the envy of the world. You need another hobby.

Anonymous wrote:Most colleges are overpriced.
Most colleges have way too many students that binge drink.
Yet we still drive ourselves crazy trying to figure out where our student will fit in without going broke or hoping our child does not drink themselves to death.
There is really something wrong with the entire system of college.

Anonymous wrote:Could someone please take a moment to focus on the question about the social climate at Duke in particular. Would an intelligent, active, but reserved student enjoy the social life at Duke?