Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know but I will say this: every guy who's approached me for an affair shuts down when it gets to logistics. Every single guy says, "My wife controls all the money, so I can't pay for dinner/drinks/gifts/hotel room." Assuming I would start an affair, I'm sure not going to have one with a guy who expects me to pick up the tab, or sleep with him at his house!!! How clueless are these guys, really?
The guy who approached me said we could get a hotel/motel. whatever works... i was like motel?! um no thanks.
The thing is that it is not an affair. These guys want sex but are too cheap to go to a sex-worker. Plus, they usually have not been able to seduce you with their conversation or intellect or empathy.
Wait! Maybe it is the same guy, we all have come across and now we are generalizing?
I am cracking up!Anonymous wrote:Omg! Even though this is anonymous I am floored you would ask, and shocked people are providing a response.
Anonymous wrote:Where I come from, they're called short time hotels.

Anonymous wrote:Omg! Even though this is anonymous I am floored you would ask, and shocked people are providing a response.
Anonymous wrote:Try the Hotel California. If you're going down that road, you can check out, but you can never leave.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know but I will say this: every guy who's approached me for an affair shuts down when it gets to logistics. Every single guy says, "My wife controls all the money, so I can't pay for dinner/drinks/gifts/hotel room." Assuming I would start an affair, I'm sure not going to have one with a guy who expects me to pick up the tab, or sleep with him at his house!!! How clueless are these guys, really?
The guy who approached me said we could get a hotel/motel. whatever works... i was like motel?! um no thanks. [/quote
The thing is that it is not an affair. These guys want sex but are too cheap to go to a sex-worker. Plus, they usually have not been able to seduce you with their conversation or intellect or empathy.
Wait! Maybe it is the same guy, we all have come across and now we are generalizing?