Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 09:19     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
That bitch needs to do a little extra sucking tonight.
Fairfax
Post 01/17/2014 09:11     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Good Lord. What a bitch.

It's posts like these that make me so VERY happy I'm single.

+1 to all of you who told her off.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 09:06     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:OP, it would piss me off. I think it would be obvious I was just venting, so for him to a) cut me off and b) do so in such a passive-aggressive way as to suggest, "Ok, fine, I"ll take the stinkin' bus!" was uncalled for. DH needs to know when you are just venting and when you are really looking for a solution to a problem. This time, it was the latter.


I hate these domineering bitches. They think it's ok to vent and take a rude swipe and their DHs AND then they get angrier when DH doesn't just say, "Yes, dear," is his best Droopy Dog voice.

These women need to be shipped off to an island where they can nag each other and treat each other like shit for their remaining years.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 08:55     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You were wrong. You raised a problem, he pointed out an easy solution. If you can't do a favor for someone with a smile, without resenting it, then don't do them the favor.

You owe him an apology. YOU would have pissed me off if I were your husband.


Agreed. What you said is rude.


Stuff like this makes me wonder why people get married at all. You screwed up ... Won't be the first time or the last. Apologize and move on.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 05:37     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:You were wrong. You raised a problem, he pointed out an easy solution. If you can't do a favor for someone with a smile, without resenting it, then don't do them the favor.

You owe him an apology. YOU would have pissed me off if I were your husband.


Agreed. What you said is rude.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 02:20     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So, I drop my DH off at the metro every morning on the way to taking kids to school. This morning I was tired and cranky and started bitching to my DH about all the things I need to do around the house and dropped in "and on top of that I have to be your taxi." He said, "There's a bus stop right there. I'll get out. I don't need you to drive me." Well, now I am really pissed 'cause I feel he doesn't appreciate my driving him. What do you think? Was his an asshole response? Or did I provoke him? Should I apologize for what I said?


Op I am probably one of the few who also drive DH to the metro in the morning. You vented; he over reacted. If you drive him everyday, you might want to think it over: is it causing resentment? Do you feel it is too much? There are times when I don't mind taking DH and there are others when it really is inconvenient. We have worked it out that from time to time, it is better to take a cab. Really helps the marriage. You can always rise above and apologize. I would like to know how many of the PPs who said you were just beyond rude actually take a person every day. It can get wearing.


Tough shit. I drive my kids to school every day. Should they take a cab? Should I rant at them? Are they supposed to be grateful to me?

It's a partnership. He's working, presumably part of what allows her to SAH includes driving him to the Metro: which is ON HER WAY to the kids school.

She's a complete bitch.


OP if you are a SAHM with kids in school and complain about dropping your husband who supports you at the Metro - just wow.
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 01:03     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Agree to all of this...
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 01:02     Subject: Re:Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you blew up and he tried to diffuse the situation.

+1

What was he supposed to say to you?
Anonymous
Post 01/17/2014 01:00     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Apologize
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2014 15:40     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
I get unreasonable and bitchy when I have PMS. Maybe you're having the same issue?

Now that i think about it, I probably shouldn't have scheduled a date for tonight.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2014 15:27     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So, I drop my DH off at the metro every morning on the way to taking kids to school. This morning I was tired and cranky and started bitching to my DH about all the things I need to do around the house and dropped in "and on top of that I have to be your taxi." He said, "There's a bus stop right there. I'll get out. I don't need you to drive me." Well, now I am really pissed 'cause I feel he doesn't appreciate my driving him. What do you think? Was his an asshole response? Or did I provoke him? Should I apologize for what I said?


Op I am probably one of the few who also drive DH to the metro in the morning. You vented; he over reacted. If you drive him everyday, you might want to think it over: is it causing resentment? Do you feel it is too much? There are times when I don't mind taking DH and there are others when it really is inconvenient. We have worked it out that from time to time, it is better to take a cab. Really helps the marriage. You can always rise above and apologize. I would like to know how many of the PPs who said you were just beyond rude actually take a person every day. It can get wearing.


Tough shit. I drive my kids to school every day. Should they take a cab? Should I rant at them? Are they supposed to be grateful to me?

It's a partnership. He's working, presumably part of what allows her to SAH includes driving him to the Metro: which is ON HER WAY to the kids school.

She's a complete bitch.


Thank you from a WOHD who often feels unappreciated by SAHW.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2014 15:27     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Um, yeah - you're the one in the wrong here OP. You totally started it with your remark about "having to be your taxi". If it sounded half as nasty in person as it reads then you need to think about your level of resentment and how it is coloring your behavior.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2014 14:48     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
You were the asshole.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2014 14:39     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
Anonymous wrote:OP, it would piss me off. I think it would be obvious I was just venting, so for him to a) cut me off and b) do so in such a passive-aggressive way as to suggest, "Ok, fine, I"ll take the stinkin' bus!" was uncalled for. DH needs to know when you are just venting and when you are really looking for a solution to a problem. This time, it was the latter.


haha I guess you don't have any idea what passive aggressive means

Anonymous
Post 01/16/2014 14:35     Subject: Ladies, would this piss you off?
You blew up, it happens, apologize and move on.