Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 16:30     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

funny
I just did today.
Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 16:28     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

Mail yourself a fake letter indicating that you've contracted a rare virus and you have 2 weeks to live -

May as well try and get something out of hubby's snoopy behavior.
Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 15:14     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

I open all of it, unless it looks personal - not much of that these days. Oddly I think I'd object if he opened mine, but that's not a problem b/c he doesn't pay attention to any mail unless I put it right under his nose.
Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 15:08     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

I open anything that looks like junk or bills - regardless of the name on it. I deal with all of that and DH would just let the crap pile up. I even opened DH's jury summons the other day b/c I knew he wouldn't deal with it if I didn't make him. If it's personal (like a birthday card) I leave it for him to open. It's not that we have anything to hide, but it's fun to open your own personal stuff. I would be disappointed if DH opened cards addressed to me.
Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 12:22     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

Anonymous wrote:I don't open anything that looks like 'real' mail. I open/throw away any credit card offers, advertisements, etc.

I've been married 10 years.

This is what I do as well.
Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 12:10     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

If it doesn't have my kids' or my name on it it doesn't get opened by me. Same with DH.
Anonymous
Post 12/26/2013 12:01     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, because if I didn't , no one would. My husband couldn't care less about what comes in the mail.


Yep! This and neither of us have anything to hide from each other.

Anonymous
Post 12/25/2013 14:04     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

I open it. He doesn't care.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2013 09:44     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

I open most of the mail. If I didn't, it would go in a pile. Then, when we were cleaning up he would shove the pile in a bag, or a drawer, etc.

He still has a huge plastic bin full of unopened mail from two moves ago, before we were married, that he needs to go through and shred. I want to just shred the whole thing, but he wants to go through it.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2013 09:24     Subject: Re:Do you open your spouses mail?

I generally open all mail, doesn't matter what it is. Husband could not care less.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2013 08:32     Subject: Re:Do you open your spouses mail?

Anonymous wrote:Husband checks and opens all mail. I don't care.


Totally. I'm glad someone's doing it.
Anonymous
Post 12/25/2013 02:10     Subject: Do you open your spouses mail?

Anonymous wrote:Yes, because if I didn't , no one would. My husband couldn't care less about what comes in the mail.


This. And who gets personal mail these days?