Anonymous wrote:DH works about 40 hrs a week, sometimes 45 if there is an issue, and makes 120K a year. He knows he's quite lucky. He's been presented with an opportunity to be promoted within the company for a nice pay raise, but it would mean longer work hours. So we're not quite sure what to do right now.
We don't live in the DC area anymore so 120K does go further, although we are still on the East Coast, so not THAT much further.
My parents made a decision early in my dad's career that it wasn't worth it to them to have him make more money if it meant that we didn't get to see him every day. They never once regretted it, and I'm really close to my dad and they still have an awesome marriage.