Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 13:44     Subject: Re:s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
Anonymous wrote:"If you see a [fill in item of clothing he wants here] when you are out and about, could you pick one up for me?"

We both work. I am not much of a shopper.

If you want something, then go out or go online, and buy it for yourself.


You think this is annoying? My DH and I do this for each other all the time. For example, I will ask him to get me coffee if he passes a Starbucks.

My goodness! Some of you act like you do not even like your husbands, never mind loving them.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 13:29     Subject: Re:s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
"If you see a [fill in item of clothing he wants here] when you are out and about, could you pick one up for me?"

We both work. I am not much of a shopper.

If you want something, then go out or go online, and buy it for yourself.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 12:43     Subject: Re:s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
Anonymous wrote:
What I find works is a simple thank you. Whenever my husband does something that's helpful, I say 'thank you' or 'thanks, that really made my life easier!" or something like that. As a result, he's now great about helping out with things.

I also realized that I was getting mad at him because he wasn't reading my mind, so now I ask him if I need help with something, like bringing in a big box from the car. I also give him a timeframe, i.e. "I don't need it done right now" or "I really could use that because I need to do ABC".

Results have been great! Changing my behavior really made a difference. I hadn't realized how resentful I sounded to him!

You need to get in touch with your feminine side, that male is controlling you.


My husband deserves common courtesy. Just because I'm a woman, doesn't mean I should be rude. That doesn't reflect well on me.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 09:56     Subject: s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
"oh, did Mommy wake up on the wrong side of the bed today?"

"Are you on your period?"

This is the automatical response I get when I express annoyance at ANYTHING he does.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 09:52     Subject: s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"If I had know this was the case (DW's low desire), I probably wouldn't have married you"


What a turn on!


Fuck off.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 09:23     Subject: Re:s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
Anonymous wrote:When I accuse him of not pulling his weight with respect to the kids, even though we both work full time, his ultimate defense is,"Well you were the one who wanted kids." Nice, eh?


Was what he said untrue?
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 08:52     Subject: Re:s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
Anonymous wrote:I love the, "we really need to…" anything statements. After 15 of marriage, I now say, "Sounds great. I will not be handling any part of the details or the maintenance."


YES!
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 08:50     Subject: Re:s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
When I accuse him of not pulling his weight with respect to the kids, even though we both work full time, his ultimate defense is,"Well you were the one who wanted kids." Nice, eh?
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 08:45     Subject: s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
Anonymous wrote:"If I had know this was the case (DW's low desire), I probably wouldn't have married you"


What a turn on!
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2013 08:14     Subject: s/o: Obnoxious things your DH says
"If I had know this was the case (DW's low desire), I probably wouldn't have married you"