Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yams = optional
Mashed potatoes = essential
I'm from the South, so it's the opposite. (Also, they are called sweet potatoes, not yams, but anyway). My in-laws always make mashed potatoes and I never eat any. For me, mashed potatoes are a year-round food and not special to Thanksgiving. There are so many other carbs -- including the dressing (not stuffing), for which I wait all year -- that I would never eat mashed potatoes at Thanksgiving. And my mother and grandmother never made them for Thanksgiving either. Clearly we are in the minority though.
Why don't you just poll your guests? That will get you a more accurate answer than DCUM.