Have you seen oatmeal pancakes? My son LOVES these. They are essentially oatmeal in pancake form (meaning, they don't taste like pancakes, they taste like oatmeal). So, it's a way to eat oatmeal that's not mushy.
http://www.superhealthykids.com/healthy-kids-recipes/super-duper-oatmeal-pancakes-50-giveaway-included.php
I skip the dried apricots because I hate them (although I guess I could try the cranberries); and drizzle a tiny bit of maple syrup instead of honey on top. Also, these are pretty bland, so I add cinnamon, and occasionally a bit of vanilla for more flavor. They keep well for leftovers for the next few days.