Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is English your second language OP?

does using your brain come to you like a 4th language?

Yes English is my first language. I see neither the relevancy or logic in asking this. Explain yourself. Please. You piqued my interest but do it in another forum. Preferably in Sanskrit so I cant read it.

PP may be asking because of your grammatical errors.

Yes but me thinks that my contextual syntax is clearly that of a native English speaker. I am the OP.. This isnt an English paper. God....

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Emotional disconnect is my guess. Don't focus on the sex. Focus on the intimacy, the sex will come.

Yes I'll focus on that. In love her to pieces and ill do almost anything for her. I just want things yo be as they were.

Your wife has probably outgrown you, you seem to be very shallow. Impossible for things to be as they were.

Good luck.

Anonymous wrote:You don't get her off or fulfill her sexual needs. She probably likes some kinky shit that she is terrified to tell you about. Give her a year and she will be emotionally detached and not wanting any sex from you. Her vibrator will then be replaced by another mans dick. You will find out and get a divorce. She will take all your money. Next post!

Quite right and very insightful. Found a left open tab that wasn't meant to be open...shall I divulge? I risk exposing that I am posting as she reads this. Enough requests and I will.

Anonymous wrote:Is English your second language OP?

Seems more like OP comes from a blue collar background.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is English your second language OP?

does using your brain come to you like a 4th language?

Yes English is my first language. I see neither the relevancy or logic in asking this. Explain yourself. Please. You piqued my interest but do it in another forum. Preferably in Sanskrit so I cant read it.

PP may be asking because of your grammatical errors.

Anonymous wrote:Emotional disconnect is my guess. Don't focus on the sex. Focus on the intimacy, the sex will come.

Yes I'll focus on that. In love her to pieces and ill do almost anything for her. I just want things yo be as they were.

Anonymous wrote:Is English your second language OP?

does using your brain come to you like a 4th language?

Yes English is my first language. I see neither the relevancy or logic in asking this. Explain yourself. Please. You piqued my interest but do it in another forum. Preferably in Sanskrit so I cant read it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I...wonder....if.....it's......this...OP...

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/336230.page

you......wonder.....incorrectly....sorry...not...me

getting a Bill Shatner vibe here lols!

Emotional disconnect is my guess. Don't focus on the sex. Focus on the intimacy, the sex will come.

But all the other wives say he's great! And he has six-pack abs!

You don't get her off or fulfill her sexual needs. She probably likes some kinky shit that she is terrified to tell you about. Give her a year and she will be emotionally detached and not wanting any sex from you. Her vibrator will then be replaced by another mans dick. You will find out and get a divorce. She will take all your money. Next post!

Is English your second language OP?

I wonder if she gets off when you have sex. In my early 20s, I remember staying with a boyfriend who didn't please me but I'd lied for so long about being satisfied and didn't want to hurt his feelings. The first time I orgasmed was via a vibrator and I got hooked for awhile and I would go through the motions with him.

Op, are you sure she climaxes vs pretending?

Anonymous wrote:To be honest, it might not be sex so much as a relationship issue. If my dh has annoyed me earlier that day, I have no interest in being physically intimate - because my emotions are intertwined with what's going on physically. If I could keep my emotions out of it, that would be a different thing altogether.

Definitely a relationship issue. She wants sex. Just not with OP. He'd probably have better luck with her if he were a stranger.

To be honest, it might not be sex so much as a relationship issue. If my dh has annoyed me earlier that day, I have no interest in being physically intimate - because my emotions are intertwined with what's going on physically. If I could keep my emotions out of it, that would be a different thing altogether.