Anonymous wrote:
I was with you until your second paragraph. This isn't bad because it's associated with black people. It's bad because it's incorrect grammar. If you travel anywhere in the world and meet someone who speaks English, it won't matter what the color of your skin is; you'll make a bad impression as an American speaking in a grammatically incorrect manner. I don't want to undo have to undo mistakes learned at school, especially those that shouldn't be taught in the first place. I will do it, of course, but it's not too much to ask someone with a college degree to speak grammatically correct English while teaching.
Anonymous wrote:Years ago, I taught primarily AA students. An expert came in and told us that we should not correct their "ebonics". One of the AA teachers hit the roof. She said these kids will never get decent jobs if we don't teach proper English.
OH MY GOD -- YOU JUST SAID BLACK FOLK LEARN TO SPEAK STANDARD ENGLISH FROM THEIR WHITE TEACHERS AND PEERS!!
Newsflash black people are not born speaking "ebonics!
How ignorant can one person be
Did you listen to Rachel Genteal during the Martin trial? Lots of people could not understand her. That's the problem.
Anonymous wrote:I repeat what the AA teacher said when we were told to "accept" Ebonics::These children will never get good jobs if we don't teach them to speak properly.
This is certainly a complex and loaded issue. I agree that inner city kids should learn how to speak standard English if they want to blend into mainstream society and have professional jobs in general--how you speak impacts how others perceive you. However, there are certainly people who speak in a black dialect who are doing quite well--tell Cornell West and Tavis Smiley that their careers are lacking. But what I was arguing is the demographic for whom this is a complete non-issue are upper middle class white people who send their kids to diverse, but high performing preschools at at the age of 3 or 4 start testing the waters with words like "ain't". By the time they are in school or able to get jobs, they will have long learned that if they speak standard English, that is what opens doors in most of society. I think white upper middle class parents are hand wringing over an issue that is a non-issue for them. At schools where there are high populations of affluent upper middle class people, even more middle class and AA kids get plenty of exposure to standard English through white teachers and their white peers. Where this is an issue is not the high performing schools, it is the schools in poor inner city areas.
And furthermore--why is speaking in a "black" way limiting? Because white people say so, and white people are dominant in positions of power in society. If you expose your children to kids of all different backgrounds, then perhaps in the future this lingering stereotype will not be as prevalent. It has to work both ways--black students learning how to speak standard English and white people putting their prejudices behind them. By freaking out about a bit of african american vernacular English, you're pretty much perpetuating the status quo. Teach your children how to speak standard English. But don't worry too much about "deprogramming" them--society will do that soon enough.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I repeat what the AA teacher said when we were told to "accept" Ebonics::These children will never get good jobs if we don't teach them to speak properly.
I completely agree! But this is a loaded issue. It's something that should be addressed within the AA community.
Anonymous wrote:Oh jeez. I went to DCPS (one of those "JKLM" schools) and some of the teachers and aides didn't always speak 100% grammatically correct English and often spoke with a black dialect. I got a great education there. I am white and upper middle class, and I speak the way my parents speak; I did when I was elementary school age as well. My peers also spoke the way their parents spoke--i.e. generally grammatically correctly. I also read a lot of books--like Tom Sawyer--that were written at least partially in dialect, and I got that people from various backgrounds spoke differently.
Children internalize pretty early on that people perceive you differently if you speak differently, and being white and speaking as if you are white confers advantage socially and academically. I internalized this before I could intellectually comprehend what was going on--if this makes you feel better. It also taught me that people speak differently when they have different cultural backgrounds, and you shouldn't make assumptions about people's intelligence by how they speak. DC has long been a city with a large African American population, and African American vernacular is spoken all over this city--unless you want your kid to live in a bubble, they will encounter black people with black speech patterns, who, yes, are in positions of authority.
I would actually say that after I moved from DC, I realized that I had no issues understanding "black" English the way a lot of upper middle class white people seem to, and I think this is generally a good thing. So I really wouldn't freak out too much about a few "ain'ts" and dropping the "to be" verb in sentences. It does come off as racist, classist, and petty.
Anonymous wrote:OP here: It's a lot of "We don't have no . . . ". This was the exact type of stuff DC heard at daycare all the time (along with "I be...", "you be...") and he definitely did pick it up from them. I understand what everyone is saying about parents being the biggest influence, and I would like to believe that. But my husband and I do not speak like that, and neither do any of our family or friends, so daycare was the only way DC could have picked up that sort of "grammar." Now he's getting it at DCPS too and it is driving my crazy. Anyone have a successful conversation with a principal about this? I am worried about it coming off as racist.
Anonymous wrote:Last year, our preschool teacher often spoke using african american vernacular english. This year, our teacher speaks standard american english.
I'm usually caught off guard, or at least take notice, when our teachers use AAVE because it's not what we speak. But it is what some people speak, and it's a recognized dialect, and we wouldn't tell a teacher with a southern accent to shut it off.
Currently I am fine with it. When DC is older we probably won't attend the same school, so it will be a non-issue.
Anonymous wrote:I repeat what the AA teacher said when we were told to "accept" Ebonics::These children will never get good jobs if we don't teach them to speak properly.
This is certainly a complex and loaded issue. I agree that inner city kids should learn how to speak standard English if they want to blend into mainstream society and have professional jobs in general--how you speak impacts how others perceive you. However, there are certainly people who speak in a black dialect who are doing quite well--tell Cornell West and Tavis Smiley that their careers are lacking. But what I was arguing is the demographic for whom this is a complete non-issue are upper middle class white people who send their kids to diverse, but high performing preschools at at the age of 3 or 4 start testing the waters with words like "ain't". By the time they are in school or able to get jobs, they will have long learned that if they speak standard English, that is what opens doors in most of society. I think white upper middle class parents are hand wringing over an issue that is a non-issue for them. At schools where there are high populations of affluent upper middle class people, even more middle class and AA kids get plenty of exposure to standard English through white teachers and their white peers. Where this is an issue is not the high performing schools, it is the schools in poor inner city areas.
And furthermore--why is speaking in a "black" way limiting? Because white people say so, and white people are dominant in positions of power in society. If you expose your children to kids of all different backgrounds, then perhaps in the future this lingering stereotype will not be as prevalent. It has to work both ways--black students learning how to speak standard English and white people putting their prejudices behind them. By freaking out about a bit of african american vernacular English, you're pretty much perpetuating the status quo. Teach your children how to speak standard English. But don't worry too much about "deprogramming" them--society will do that soon enough.
I repeat what the AA teacher said when we were told to "accept" Ebonics::These children will never get good jobs if we don't teach them to speak properly.
Anonymous wrote:I repeat what the AA teacher said when we were told to "accept" Ebonics::These children will never get good jobs if we don't teach them to speak properly.