Anonymous wrote:People really freak out about some crazy things here...my teenage daughter has her female friends sleep over all the time and they are almost always sleeping together in her queen size bed - unless there are too many of them and they all sleep in the basement on inflatable mattresses. Nothing wrong with that and I personally think it's weird that parents (especially the PP who hasn't allowed it since age 7 years) think that it is wrong to allow same bed sleeping for same-sex friends. It makes me think they are a little "fire and brimstone" in their outlook on the world....
BUT - I would be careful about the "gay" friend sleeping with your daughter, OP. I agree with the PP that there is plenty of experimenting happening with teens. Your daughter may be absolutely telling you the truth, but be prepared to find out something different.
I totally agree! Most of the time I stayed with my friends from high school, we slept together and NOTHING ever happened. Sometimes it was in their beds, sometimes it was on a pullout couch. What is wrong with you people?