Anonymous wrote:The whole "we don't need Xmas presents this year" line is simply gross. Your mother in law is a piece of work. And why is she giving you the shakedown?
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Here's an excerpt from MIL's e-mail (names are fake):
"I am still upset that all of you are not coming to Fred and Ginger's wedding. This is an important and joyous occasion that will happen once in a lifetime. Can't you find a way to save the money? It's over 6 months away. We don't need Christmas presents this year."
I did not respond and forwarded to DH. Sigh.
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. Here's an excerpt from MIL's e-mail (names are fake):
"I am still upset that all of you are not coming to Fred and Ginger's wedding. This is an important and joyous occasion that will happen once in a lifetime. Can't you find a way to save the money? It's over 6 months away. We don't need Christmas presents this year."
I did not respond and forwarded to DH. Sigh.
Anonymous wrote:I'm probably going to be the only one saying this, but I'd make more of an effort. What kind of destination? Somewhere you could actually make a vacation out of?
I do think mil is overstepping it a bit with her comments. Also, not the most considerate of uncle.
I will say, if you don't go, you sure as hell better not be taking any Disney vacations or anything like that for the next couple of years. If I was uncle and found out about a Disney vacation that year, I'd be really pissed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Absolutely absurd for you all to go. Don't give it another thought. If MIL calls, immediately hand phone to your DH. If she emails, forward to him. This is his unreasonable mother, his problem.
Yep. And DH really owes you an apology for letting you walk into that. He should have either told her, or told you that he's waiting until later to tell her so you could have changed the subject. The fact that you bore the brunt of her wrath instead of him is really obnoxious of him.