OP here - thanks so much for all your suggestions. I will give them the names of the areas and start with that.
Whoever suggested Howard County thanks for that - I had told them Montgomery County in Maryland but now I have another county to add

I don't have kids yet so I had no idea what to suggest!
Yes I did post in the real estate forum but then I saw that there were forums for Virginia schools and Maryland schools and thought I would post there. This is my first time posting on DC Urban Mom and from what I understand, some people only check certain forums and my guess is that everyone who is active on the school forums has kids and is thus more knowledgeable. I did not know that there were forum police here.
I wonder what area they will end up picking!

Thank you all again so much.