PP here, and it may sound snobby to some BUT someone not worldly, and has no desire for international travel.

No sense of humor about himself (takes himself too seriously.) Too hairy. Man jewelry (wedding ring ok, and I have a "thing" for earthy guys who wear necklaces made of string/charm, beads (think Grateful Dead.)

Short and/or a bad taste in shoes. Crocs are a dealbreaker.
I also cannot stand men in sandals! I don't want to look at your gross, hairy feet. I don't care if it's hot. Unless you are on the beach, get your Hobbit toes away from me. And if they're tiny Hobbit feet in sandals, I'm even more turned off.

Anonymous wrote:Lazy. Or cocky. Or smug.

Yes. Yes. Yes. The cocky attribute is number one in my book. I abhor arrogant men!

surprised more people haven't said smoking. that's a deal breaker for me and something that's obvious. some of the personality traits take a while to be exposed.

Dumb and cocky.

Dealbreakers for me:
1) A guy who gives mixed messages - that he's available when he's not and acts all innocent about it
2) A guy who can't stop talking about himself

Lacking integrity

angry, cocky and unemployed like my DH.

Short-tempered.

Stubby hands and feet.

Felonies/Restraining orders
-A bunch of out of wedlock kids that he doesn't support
Addiction
-Living with some relative/friend until he "gets back on his feet"
-Psychiatric disorders that require lifelong medication and monitoring: schizophrenia or bipolar disorder.
-Morbid obesity
-His own children won't speak to him

Dishonest
Overweight
Uneducated
Poor hygiene and poor eating habits
Smoker and Drug Abuser
Short
Lacks a sense of humor
Abusive
Selfish
Insecure
Unattractive
Ill-mannered
Overly religious
Lacks ambition
Lackluster in the bedroom
Not financially or emotionally stable
Too feminine
Lacks self-confidence
Lower class (redneck or ghetto) mentality

Being mean/unkind
Self-centeredness
Arrogance

Bad breath
cocky

Don't care about weight.