Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here.
Thanks for the conversation, folks. Even the contradictory conversation. It seems best to stage things neutral, as some here proposed.
For what it's worth, our place is really close to 16th, actually, Between 16th and 14th, very close to Target, Tivoli Theater, and CH Metro. Folks hang out on their front porches, families of various SES and ethnicities have raised children here. But those with money seem to send their children to private school. It's a very diverse block, and folks who own tend to stay and stay and stay.
You on Monroe, OP? I might be interested . . .
Anonymous wrote:OP here.
Thanks for the conversation, folks. Even the contradictory conversation. It seems best to stage things neutral, as some here proposed.
For what it's worth, our place is really close to 16th, actually, Between 16th and 14th, very close to Target, Tivoli Theater, and CH Metro. Folks hang out on their front porches, families of various SES and ethnicities have raised children here. But those with money seem to send their children to private school. It's a very diverse block, and folks who own tend to stay and stay and stay.
Anonymous wrote:Are you really "happy" to send your dd to a school with such poor reading and math scores and such a high level of needy kids (96% free lunch)? Odd word choice.
So that's my logic. If I'm going to send my child to an elementary school that needs work and where I would want to be as involved as possible, I'd much rather it be somewhere I can basically see from my front door.
Anonymous wrote:DD didn't get into charters this lottery. She did get in OOB to another DCPS that people talk smack about on this board. Because she flat-out got in there and I ranked Tubman last because it was a safety, new rules took her out of the running for Tubman. Honestly, if it had been a choice between the OOB school and Tubman, I would send her to Tubman. It's right down the street and IS improving. As it is, she's staying in the daycare she's been in for 2 years. We'll lottery again next year, and if she doesn't get in anywhere more exciting, I'm happy to send her to Tubman.
I know this throws off your sample and probably makes you think I'm a shitty parent, but I really don't care. Go ahead and leave the neighborhood if that's what your priorities are. I know a lot of people who are not doing so. My kid isn't the only one who will likely be going to Tubman for K in my circle of CH friends.
I don't think you're a shitty parent - it's not a choice I would make, but hey, if you're comfortable with it, more power to you. The only way Tubman, and other schools like it, will change is by parents like you taking the plunge. I do often think about what the school would be like if all of the high-SES IB kids I know (and the dozens I don't know) in Tubman's catchment area went there - it would be quite a springboard. But sadly, it'll have to happen in incremental steps.
I do wonder why you ranked a school you would not send your kid to over one you would send your kid to, though.
DD didn't get into charters this lottery. She did get in OOB to another DCPS that people talk smack about on this board. Because she flat-out got in there and I ranked Tubman last because it was a safety, new rules took her out of the running for Tubman. Honestly, if it had been a choice between the OOB school and Tubman, I would send her to Tubman. It's right down the street and IS improving. As it is, she's staying in the daycare she's been in for 2 years. We'll lottery again next year, and if she doesn't get in anywhere more exciting, I'm happy to send her to Tubman.
I know this throws off your sample and probably makes you think I'm a shitty parent, but I really don't care. Go ahead and leave the neighborhood if that's what your priorities are. I know a lot of people who are not doing so. My kid isn't the only one who will likely be going to Tubman for K in my circle of CH friends.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We just moved to CH. Have two school age kids. We were able to get into a charter and found a house we liked in CH. Not much of a yard but you have the trolley park and Upshur park. Getting to Carter Barron for sports is so easy! Great place to be if you have the school situation figured out.
Only people who get in to charters are cheerleaders for Columbia Heights. There's many more of us who haven't/won't get in and are looking for a way out.
Is this an invitation to a pity party?? Because it isn't an answer to OP's question.
Anonymous wrote:
DD didn't get into charters this lottery. She did get in OOB to another DCPS that people talk smack about on this board. Because she flat-out got in there and I ranked Tubman last because it was a safety, new rules took her out of the running for Tubman. Honestly, if it had been a choice between the OOB school and Tubman, I would send her to Tubman. It's right down the street and IS improving. As it is, she's staying in the daycare she's been in for 2 years. We'll lottery again next year, and if she doesn't get in anywhere more exciting, I'm happy to send her to Tubman.
I know this throws off your sample and probably makes you think I'm a shitty parent, but I really don't care. Go ahead and leave the neighborhood if that's what your priorities are. I know a lot of people who are not doing so. My kid isn't the only one who will likely be going to Tubman for K in my circle of CH friends.
Anonymous wrote:The bold above really is the crux of the issue. PP who wants to stay - where do your kids go to school? I'll wager it isn't Tubman. Families who have good school options (charter, OOB or private) love CH. We moved there pre-kids, with no intention of staying. We were actively looking at houses in Arlington and MoCo when we got lucky in the charter school lottery. I freely admit to being a CH cheerleader, but it's silly to to pretend the realities of the situation do not exist.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unless kids are in Private school you are not going to many people with kids over 3.
Says the person who has never been to Columbia Heights.![]()
OP, we're a professional family with school-aged kids, and we can walk to the homes of dozens of friends. I know several other families who bemoan being priced out of CH, because it's where they really want to live.
Says the idiot who hasn't contemplated school or simply doesn't give a darn.... OP, I'm in Columbia Heights now and looking for a way out. The neighborhood is lovely for young couples, those with infants, twenty-somethings fresh out of college, gay couples with no kids, etc... but it loses it's charm once your kid hits pre-school age. Tubman is awful, so most area parents scramble in the lottery shuffle for a decent OOB DCPS or charter. Some luck out. Most don't. We're in private right now, but can't afford it forever, so we'll continue to play the lottery while we try to move away. Already been to a bejesus number of open houses in VA and MD and all of the house hoppers have DC license plates. In just a few short convos, we've discovered we're all DC expat wannabes. Sad, but true. Don't stage the house with children in mind. Better to keep it neutral.
You know, for every one of you in Columbia Heights, there are also families who are perfectly happy to stay there, with kids of school age. I'm one of them, and I know at least 4-5 other families personally who are not leaving any time soon.
I do agree about neutral staging, though.
The bold above really is the crux of the issue. PP who wants to stay - where do your kids go to school? I'll wager it isn't Tubman. Families who have good school options (charter, OOB or private) love CH. We moved there pre-kids, with no intention of staying. We were actively looking at houses in Arlington and MoCo when we got lucky in the charter school lottery. I freely admit to being a CH cheerleader, but it's silly to to pretend the realities of the situation do not exist.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unless kids are in Private school you are not going to many people with kids over 3.
Says the person who has never been to Columbia Heights.![]()
OP, we're a professional family with school-aged kids, and we can walk to the homes of dozens of friends. I know several other families who bemoan being priced out of CH, because it's where they really want to live.
Says the idiot who hasn't contemplated school or simply doesn't give a darn.... OP, I'm in Columbia Heights now and looking for a way out. The neighborhood is lovely for young couples, those with infants, twenty-somethings fresh out of college, gay couples with no kids, etc... but it loses it's charm once your kid hits pre-school age. Tubman is awful, so most area parents scramble in the lottery shuffle for a decent OOB DCPS or charter. Some luck out. Most don't. We're in private right now, but can't afford it forever, so we'll continue to play the lottery while we try to move away. Already been to a bejesus number of open houses in VA and MD and all of the house hoppers have DC license plates. In just a few short convos, we've discovered we're all DC expat wannabes. Sad, but true. Don't stage the house with children in mind. Better to keep it neutral.
You know, for every one of you in Columbia Heights, there are also families who are perfectly happy to stay there, with kids of school age. I'm one of them, and I know at least 4-5 other families personally who are not leaving any time soon.
I do agree about neutral staging, though.