Anonymous
Post 04/24/2013 07:34     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
OP, don't even bother. You will not get a useful or honest answer because your thread, like the previous thread, has been captured by a bunch of idiots. FWIW-- and you will have to google b/c I do not have the reference at hand-- a recent CDC study found that about 10 percent of self-identified straight men said they had had at least one same-sex sexual experience. Now, the PPs will all insist, based on their telepathic insight into all other human beings, that these men are "really" gay. But most of these self-proclaimed DCUM experts appear to have an axe to grind... Or some serious repressed desires to deal with....
Anonymous
Post 04/24/2013 07:28     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:As teenagers, on a few occasions, my friends and I played with each other, hands only, came, but no mouth or anal. This is not so uncommon for teenagers.

I've now 38, been married for 13 years. Does my past make me gay? Your earlier comments would appear so.



I'll put it this way: I've been sexually attracted to every person that has touched me intimately. This includes fondling. I will assume that you were sexually attracted to your friends at the time and that's why you let them jack you off... youre bi or in gaynial.
Anonymous
Post 04/24/2013 02:23     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
As teenagers, on a few occasions, my friends and I played with each other, hands only, came, but no mouth or anal. This is not so uncommon for teenagers.

I've now 38, been married for 13 years. Does my past make me gay? Your earlier comments would appear so.

Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 23:26     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
If a guy digs another guy, then he is gay. Plain & simple.

I would NEVER in a million yrs. stay with a man who admitted to me he had sexual relations with another man. Even while in prison. LOL.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 22:25     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What if a girl engages in lesbian affairs in college then she moves on afterward to men and puts it in pasts, do the same rules apply? Is she gay and living a double life?


No. She is bisexual. She's not straight. On the other hand, if she makes out with women in public FOR MEN then she is straight. In the same way that two women in a threesome can be straight. If it's for the pleasure of men, it doesn't make you gay.

Two men making out is ALWAYS at least bi. I would generally think gay tbh. Unless it's rape or prostitution or something.

+1, but I'd add that in the case of men gay and bi are the same.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 22:19     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:What if a girl engages in lesbian affairs in college then she moves on afterward to men and puts it in pasts, do the same rules apply? Is she gay and living a double life?


No. She is bisexual. She's not straight. On the other hand, if she makes out with women in public FOR MEN then she is straight. In the same way that two women in a threesome can be straight. If it's for the pleasure of men, it doesn't make you gay.

Two men making out is ALWAYS at least bi. I would generally think gay tbh. Unless it's rape or prostitution or something.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 22:16     Subject: Re:s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:If a guy tried to encourage me to do mutual masturbation, I'd say he was gay. He could run for cover by sleeping with the cheerleading squad. Doesn't change the truth- he's gay.

So, if a guy masturbates with a guy, he's gay, but if he has sex with women he's still gay? That makes no sense.

Um, no. YOU don't make sense and I feel sorry for any woman deceived by you. You don't change sexuality like changing for underwear every day. If you've masturbated with a dude and then sleep with a woman you're a gay/bi male who's sleeping with a woman. You are not a heterosexual. Would be nice if some through and through gay men could chime in here. Your brothers in denial could use some help!
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 22:10     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
What if a girl engages in lesbian affairs in college then she moves on afterward to men and puts it in pasts, do the same rules apply? Is she gay and living a double life?
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 22:08     Subject: Re:s/o straight men sleeping with men
If a guy tried to encourage me to do mutual masturbation, I'd say he was gay. He could run for cover by sleeping with the cheerleading squad. Doesn't change the truth- he's gay.

So, if a guy masturbates with a guy, he's gay, but if he has sex with women he's still gay? That makes no sense.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 21:44     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:^^ you are gay now acting straight.


This.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 21:37     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
^^ you are gay now acting straight.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 21:13     Subject: Re:s/o straight men sleeping with men
Does same sex activities when I was in boarding school fall in the same category? If so, probably a third of the guys who were with me participated in some level of sexual activity with fellow-students. It really was pretty much the norm.

Most of us moved on to leading normal hetero-sexual lives.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 20:59     Subject: Re:s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:I'm straight, married love the chicks, but have had encounters with men (never anal). I haven't done it in a while, but occasionally if things were right I'd do it.

Women aren't nearly as horny as men - and don't argue, because women aren't straight raping people by force on a daily basis, as is the reality with the other gender. women don't mastrubate in public places. Women don't do a lot of things men do because they aren't as horny. A horny dude will take any warm mouth that is offered.

There are lots - probably tons of straight guys, or guys who lead an exceedingly straight life, that have been with men. They don't have anal intercourse, but they definitely do everything else. I can tell you things that will shock the hell out of you.


You are not straight. You let a guy suck your dick...or vice versa....no you are definitely not straight.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 20:24     Subject: Re:s/o straight men sleeping with men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm straight, married love the chicks, but have had encounters with men (never anal). I haven't done it in a while, but occasionally if things were right I'd do it.

Women aren't nearly as horny as men - and don't argue, because women aren't straight raping people by force on a daily basis, as is the reality with the other gender. women don't mastrubate in public places. Women don't do a lot of things men do because they aren't as horny. A horny dude will take any warm mouth that is offered.

There are lots - probably tons of straight guys, or guys who lead an exceedingly straight life, that have been with men. They don't have anal intercourse, but they definitely do everything else. I can tell you things that will shock the hell out of you.


This is exactly what I thought. Men are just horny, and if you close your eyes, does it really matter? I'm just wondering HOW two straight guys hook up?

Easy, they're GAY!!! Masquerading as straight while boning dudes is GAY!


Let's be completely clear here. Any individual who rapes another individual does it for power, not sexual attraction or horniness. The same can be said for individuals who harass others by masturbating in public. It's not because that person really, really likes sex, but he or she gets off on harming others by inflicting a sense of fear, harassment, or danger upon them.
Anonymous
Post 04/23/2013 19:21     Subject: s/o straight men sleeping with men
You either like the cock or you don't.

Here is the proof

All bi men are gay but not all gay men are bi therefore all men who were into other men are gay.