Spent two hours kissing and messing around with DH this afternoon while kids napped. Heavenly. 10 years married.

my DH smokes and I HATE it so I do not like kissing him. zyuck.

Mary Jane gives me dry mouth. Two people with dry mouth trying to kiss would be difficult - at best!

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Anonymous wrote:Together 13 years. We peck all the time, but hardly ever a French kiss. DH doesn't like it. He used to when we first met. I might not even get a kiss during sex. After I'll get a peck.

I am in this category with this DH. I am a SAHM and the constant kissing, grabbing, holding, soothing from the little ones leaves me tapped out. More kissing at the end of the day makes me feel claustrophobic, especially a tongue in my mouth. I used to love kissing and now I have zero libido unless it's in fantasy land where no one actually touches me.

I feel the exact same way. SAHM here too. I don't really want anyone touching me after the kids go to bed---I don't even want to pet the cat or have her sit next to me. I'm hoping this changes as my kids get older. I used to be much more sexual, but now I feel just like this PP. Glad I'm not alone.

You guys should smoke some marijuana. Might help with the libido.

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Anonymous wrote:Together 13 years. We peck all the time, but hardly ever a French kiss. DH doesn't like it. He used to when we first met. I might not even get a kiss during sex. After I'll get a peck.

I am in this category with this DH. I am a SAHM and the constant kissing, grabbing, holding, soothing from the little ones leaves me tapped out. More kissing at the end of the day makes me feel claustrophobic, especially a tongue in my mouth. I used to love kissing and now I have zero libido unless it's in fantasy land where no one actually touches me.

I feel the exact same way. SAHM here too. I don't really want anyone touching me after the kids go to bed---I don't even want to pet the cat or have her sit next to me. I'm hoping this changes as my kids get older. I used to be much more sexual, but now I feel just like this PP. Glad I'm not alone.

Oh, in fact - porn industry unwritten rule is to keep kissing out of the action - it turns men off. It's a proven thing. Men hate it.

It's not a matter of you husband wanting to do it - because he doesn't want to. It's a matter of him caring enough about you wanting to do it to make you happy by doing it.

there have been many many many studies showing that men will kiss when they think it's their link to sex. If they think they can get sex without kissing, they won't kiss. So, if you train your guy to know that sex doesn't happen until kissing happens, you'll get kissed.

Does your husband watch porn that features only men and women kissing? NO? exactly - he's not intersted in it

I couldn't imagine sex without any kissing. Together for 7 years, married for 3.

Ditto. 9 yrs together. Sex w/o kissing just sounds bizarre to me.

Married 6 years, 4 kids.....we kiss with tongue every day multiple times a day. We've never done the tight lipped peck, but a softer lips entwined peck. I hope we don't ever stop kissing either.

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Anonymous wrote:Ok based upon most of these responses the majority of couples are peck kissing not French kissing? When hubby ad I met we could tongue kiss for hrs but we had sex last night with no kissing. Is this a natural part of a long term relationship or a red flag?

If its a red flag I'm in trouble. Together 13 years and no French kissing. Lots of pecks, but that's it.

What about during sex?

Usually not. Sometimes after he'll French me, sometimes not. If he does, I know it's only because he know how much I want it.

All these people on here who have been together 2-3 years and "can't imagine not doing ____" are so cute.

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Anonymous wrote:Ok based upon most of these responses the majority of couples are peck kissing not French kissing? When hubby ad I met we could tongue kiss for hrs but we had sex last night with no kissing. Is this a natural part of a long term relationship or a red flag?

If its a red flag I'm in trouble. Together 13 years and no French kissing. Lots of pecks, but that's it.

What about during sex?

Anonymous wrote:Ok based upon most of these responses the majority of couples are peck kissing not French kissing? When hubby ad I met we could tongue kiss for hrs but we had sex last night with no kissing. Is this a natural part of a long term relationship or a red flag?

If its a red flag I'm in trouble. Together 13 years and no French kissing. Lots of pecks, but that's it.

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Anonymous wrote:Together 13 years. We peck all the time, but hardly ever a French kiss. DH doesn't like it. He used to when we first met. I might not even get a kiss during sex. After I'll get a peck.

I am in this category with this DH. I am a SAHM and the constant kissing, grabbing, holding, soothing from the little ones leaves me tapped out. More kissing at the end of the day makes me feel claustrophobic, especially a tongue in my mouth. I used to love kissing and now I have zero libido unless it's in fantasy land where no one actually touches me.

This is me too. Kissing, hugging and carrying kids all day makes me not want to have to kiss DH! All tapped out is right.

Anonymous wrote:I couldn't imagine sex without any kissing. Together for 7 years, married for 3.

Married 13, together for 20.... i'd say the above, pecks good bye, hello, good night.... but sex, always kissing, always