Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here - this 3 hours a night sounds really high. Can others chime in - is this really the case for most kids? Not the highly advanced kids (I am guessing BASIS is much easier for them). I don't want to make my child miserable, and I want him to come home and also contribute to his family structure and chores he has around the house. But I also don't want him to be left behind because he isn't outgoing enough to raise him hand in class so he gets left behind. The base of knowledge needs to begin developing at a greatly clip, I would guess, and maybe BASIS provides that? Even if it's a bit forced.
And do kids have time for any afterschool activities, like dance or music lessons?
My 5th grader had an after school activity until 5 pm. He got home at 5:20 and we hung out and had dinner with a friend who was visiting me from out of town until about 7. He started homework and was finished by 8:15. He probably would have been done earlier, but my DH and I were distracting as we were visiting with our friend in the next room. He took a shower and is now in bed at 8:40. He's probably reading a novel.
That amount of homework is pretty typical. He had his normal 30 math problems which he can get done in about 45 minutes. Math takes less time if he gets to some of them during class as his math teacher often gives the kids the last ten minutes or so to get a start on homework. He also had Latin and a bit of Physical Geography.
My child is pretty bright, but he's not a genius. He does work hard, pays attention in class and gets all his homework done. He still has time to play soccer a couple times a week and I make him practice his musical instrument pretty much every day.
Anonymous wrote:OP here - this 3 hours a night sounds really high. Can others chime in - is this really the case for most kids? Not the highly advanced kids (I am guessing BASIS is much easier for them). I don't want to make my child miserable, and I want him to come home and also contribute to his family structure and chores he has around the house. But I also don't want him to be left behind because he isn't outgoing enough to raise him hand in class so he gets left behind. The base of knowledge needs to begin developing at a greatly clip, I would guess, and maybe BASIS provides that? Even if it's a bit forced.
And do kids have time for any afterschool activities, like dance or music lessons?
Anonymous wrote:OP here - this 3 hours a night sounds really high. Can others chime in - is this really the case for most kids? Not the highly advanced kids (I am guessing BASIS is much easier for them). I don't want to make my child miserable, and I want him to come home and also contribute to his family structure and chores he has around the house. But I also don't want him to be left behind because he isn't outgoing enough to raise him hand in class so he gets left behind. The base of knowledge needs to begin developing at a greatly clip, I would guess, and maybe BASIS provides that? Even if it's a bit forced.
And do kids have time for any afterschool activities, like dance or music lessons?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The fighting has been isolated in the upper grades and it appears that it is effectively being dealt with.
My kid has maybe an hour and a half a night, and some nights less. The thing for us is that our DC with a short attention span and cluttered ways is now organized and finishes the work efficiently and can plan ahead for nights when there are activities.
An hour and a half? What grade is he in?
For 8th grade we average 3-4hours
Average day of homework
30 problems every day, including 10 minutes of revewing new concepts, and 5 minutes of reviewing for mistakes (1 hour)
2 science homeworks per day (2 hours)
Reading and reviewing history, English homework, work on a project (1 hour)
Review for a test ( at least 30 minutes)
It's true that the pace of math is very fast, even by European standards.
It all depends on the child. My child tells me his classmates are very competitive. In fact one "smart" girl, usually quited poised, got so upset because she got a lower grade that my kid that she ripped part of my child's CJ.
Thank you for this. Writing the deposit check for a real school (private). It hurts, but your testimony puts it all in perspective. Basis is a hot mess, but perfect for people who are too lazy to move to the suburbs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The fighting has been isolated in the upper grades and it appears that it is effectively being dealt with.
My kid has maybe an hour and a half a night, and some nights less. The thing for us is that our DC with a short attention span and cluttered ways is now organized and finishes the work efficiently and can plan ahead for nights when there are activities.
An hour and a half? What grade is he in?
For 8th grade we average 3-4hours
Average day of homework
30 problems every day, including 10 minutes of revewing new concepts, and 5 minutes of reviewing for mistakes (1 hour)
2 science homeworks per day (2 hours)
Reading and reviewing history, English homework, work on a project (1 hour)
Review for a test ( at least 30 minutes)
It's true that the pace of math is very fast, even by European standards.
It all depends on the child. My child tells me his classmates are very competitive. In fact one "smart" girl, usually quited poised, got so upset because she got a lower grade that my kid that she ripped part of my child's CJ.
Anonymous wrote:The fighting has been isolated in the upper grades and it appears that it is effectively being dealt with.
My kid has maybe an hour and a half a night, and some nights less. The thing for us is that our DC with a short attention span and cluttered ways is now organized and finishes the work efficiently and can plan ahead for nights when there are activities.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What? Not for nothing, but Deal and Latin are vastly different middle schools. Different culture ( uniforms, no uniforms ), different curriculum ( IB. MYP vs. Classical ), one is a neighborhood school, one is a charter school, one is huge, the other is tiny, one has a million extra curricular activities, the other has few. Need I go on?
Let it go. She clearly hasn't toured either school and doesn't care to. Odd to say the least.
Thank you PP.
Parents at BASIS say their children study until midnight and still not done with homework. That it is normal to get 2 quizzes and 2,3 homeworks every night and if they don't finish they need to stay after school and finish it. ALso in math they just speed off because the teachers have to finish the book before May and that on weekends they cant go nowhere because the kids need to catch up with the lessons of the week with tutors because tutoring hours in the school are not enough.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What? Not for nothing, but Deal and Latin are vastly different middle schools. Different culture ( uniforms, no uniforms ), different curriculum ( IB. MYP vs. Classical ), one is a neighborhood school, one is a charter school, one is huge, the other is tiny, one has a million extra curricular activities, the other has few. Need I go on?
Let it go. She clearly hasn't toured either school and doesn't care to. Odd to say the least.
Anonymous wrote:What? Not for nothing, but Deal and Latin are vastly different middle schools. Different culture ( uniforms, no uniforms ), different curriculum ( IB. MYP vs. Classical ), one is a neighborhood school, one is a charter school, one is huge, the other is tiny, one has a million extra curricular activities, the other has few. Need I go on?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thank you for everyone's great thoughts about my child. In the end, we have decided to submit an application at least to BASIS to enter as a 5th grader as they still have placements for 2013-2014. I definitely want to tour, get a feel for the place. I think we will pass on Latin because it doesn't seem so ingredibly different from Deal, other than possibly smaller class sizes. It seems the issues are similar. Deal seems like it's incredibly overcrowded with 7 elementary schools feeding into it, and many more coming from other OOB schools. Deal, as it happens, is no longer having tours and will not schedule a personal tour for me. So it goes, I guess...