Anonymous wrote:
jindc wrote:Yay for another due date thread! I hope you all have a happy and healthy 9 months!
-an October mom to be, also staying cautiously optimistic
+ 1 - so glad to see so much support!

BTW, my first was a late summer boy. Try not to stress about it too much, but I will say it is definitely something to think about, to the extent that I'm glad my second - boy or girl (we aren't planning to find out either and didn't with the first) is due in late October. My little guy heads to PK next year, and he is just obviously "younger" than everyone else who will be in his class, if that makes any sense. They aren't the children that are his "peer group" at the playground; those will be in the next year's class just by virtue of having a birthday 6 days later. We're going to see where we are when it comes to K, but we'll hold him back if it seems like it's the best thing for him. It gets to be a divisive issue on these boards. Some people think you're holding them back to give your kid an edge. For us, that's definitely not the case. I just don't want him to lose that last year of being a little kid to K - K is really hard core nowadays. If his birthday were 5 days later, he would be going the next year anyway.
Anyway, wow, sorry, busted in on this thread, and I'm going to let myself back out now.

But not before I say I'm holding all of you moms with previous losses in my thoughts. Be well!