That might be because the OP is not saying much.

Anonymous wrote:I am having a very hard time following what the OP is saying.

I am, too.

This thread is stupid. The end.

OP here. A very stressful time. Yes, "he" has some investments for "us." He is not very clear or forthcoming about some things that he has done with his money. Now "I" am facing some possible income that "we" need to manage, and I need his help. It is a relationship problem, that impacts on finances. He is not a bad person in any way, but he has some mental issues that come and go. This leads to a lot of confusion. As I said, I am doing my best to manage this. I told him I posted ... "shouting calm down!" did not sound too organized. He said, yes that is how things are around here. No, I am not on drugs. hah! Nice easy out for this situation. I wish!