Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not trying to be snarky,OP. You have about a .00004% of getting into any of them so really, it worth very little of your time worrying whether the teachers are warm and nurturing at this point. It's just not a rational decision to put this much energy into thinking about schools that your child will likely never attend.
OP, if we had followed pessimistic advice like this, our child would never have been admitted to LAMB last year (months after the lottery, off the waitlist). Apply where you would like your child to go - there's always a chance.
No one is telling OP not to apply, where are you getting that from? The PP you're replying to is basically saying go ahead and apply, but your odds of getting in are so slim, don't waste a lot of time labor ing over the differences in "levels of nurturing" until you know what your actual choices are. Then come back and specifically ask because it's a real choice you have.
And given the odds, that is darn good advice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP
Thanks for all the input.
And to answer the question as to why I queried these specific charter schools, it is because I felt I had enough current information on the others we are planning to apply to.
I don't see how this is possible[b], unless of course this is your entire list and you are just trying to be tricky with words. What school has more written about how nuturing it is than Bridges? None. And, I have absolutely no connection with the school, but I think you are a far way off from completing your research.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not trying to be snarky,OP. You have about a .00004% of getting into any of them so really, it worth very little of your time worrying whether the teachers are warm and nurturing at this point. It's just not a rational decision to put this much energy into thinking about schools that your child will likely never attend.
OP, if we had followed pessimistic advice like this, our child would never have been admitted to LAMB last year (months after the lottery, off the waitlist). Apply where you would like your child to go - there's always a chance.
No one is telling OP not to apply, where are you getting that from? The PP you're replying to is basically saying go ahead and apply, but your odds of getting in are so slim, don't waste a lot of time labor ing over the differences in "levels of nurturing" until you know what your actual choices are. Then come back and specifically ask because it's a real choice you have.
And given the odds, that is darn good advice.
We have two friends whose kids were offered spots at LAMB, but because they had already accepted spots elsewhere, they turned them down. It is silly to take DC Urbanmom and assume that the hundreds of folks who apply are sharing the result of their experience with everyone on here. That is obviously where these "low odds" (re. 0.00004%) claims are coming from. How often have people written "We got into LAMB" on here? It's those who didn't who post a lot, giving a certain impression about the odds. Just saying.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not trying to be snarky,OP. You have about a .00004% of getting into any of them so really, it worth very little of your time worrying whether the teachers are warm and nurturing at this point. It's just not a rational decision to put this much energy into thinking about schools that your child will likely never attend.
OP, if we had followed pessimistic advice like this, our child would never have been admitted to LAMB last year (months after the lottery, off the waitlist). Apply where you would like your child to go - there's always a chance.
No one is telling OP not to apply, where are you getting that from? The PP you're replying to is basically saying go ahead and apply, but your odds of getting in are so slim, don't waste a lot of time labor ing over the differences in "levels of nurturing" until you know what your actual choices are. Then come back and specifically ask because it's a real choice you have.
And given the odds, that is darn good advice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not trying to be snarky,OP. You have about a .00004% of getting into any of them so really, it worth very little of your time worrying whether the teachers are warm and nurturing at this point. It's just not a rational decision to put this much energy into thinking about schools that your child will likely never attend.
OP, if we had followed pessimistic advice like this, our child would never have been admitted to LAMB last year (months after the lottery, off the waitlist). Apply where you would like your child to go - there's always a chance.
Anonymous wrote:Not trying to be snarky,OP. You have about a .00004% of getting into any of them so really, it worth very little of your time worrying whether the teachers are warm and nurturing at this point. It's just not a rational decision to put this much energy into thinking about schools that your child will likely never attend.
Anonymous wrote:OP
Thanks for all the input.
And to answer the question as to why I queried these specific charter schools, it is because I felt I had enough current information on the others we are planning to apply to.
Anonymous wrote:OP
Thanks for all the input.
And to answer the question as to why I queried these specific charter schools, it is because I felt I had enough current information on the others we are planning to apply to.