Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you believe you have to like them?

My house is decent size, I have two toddlers. I can only pay every other week. The woman I have now is a real anal type, not married, no kids - higher than though. Cleans well so I can't discount her there but I am sick of the Attitude and look of disgust from her. I hate process of looking for someone new. I am just tired in general. What would you do?

She's disgusted because she's cleaning your shit from YOUR toilets. Wouldn't you be?

If she'd like a more glamorous job, she can ensure that she's qualified to get one. For the time being, those who need to be cleaning others' homes will do it.

That doesn't transcend disgust. Shit is shit.

She signed up to do this job right? She's being paid to do this, right? You agreed upon a price, right? Many people do work they don't like, but do you sneer in your supervisors face? I sure don't. OP, I understand your feelings, but I'd have to find someone else. Do you have a friend or someone who can suggest someone who loves their house cleaner? I'm looking for someone also, and can't find anyone who will recommend someone who cleans fabulously--aka who is anal, who works in MC. Does anyone have someone they could recommend?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you believe you have to like them?

My house is decent size, I have two toddlers. I can only pay every other week. The woman I have now is a real anal type, not married, no kids - higher than though. Cleans well so I can't discount her there but I am sick of the Attitude and look of disgust from her. I hate process of looking for someone new. I am just tired in general. What would you do?

Is your house filthy? Two toddlers is not an excuse for living like a slob. I imagine the feeling is mutual but you blzame her for feeling disgust if you don't o anything to keep your house somewhat clean and neat every two weeks.

Sounds like a reply from a cleaning person, no?

Fire her. You'll be so much happier. I had a cleaning lady who would make snide comments, and who was judgmental. I found someone else who is professional, and it's great--much more of a business transaction, no drama!