Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your lack of planning is not my fault
Well, we all hope you remember that one day when you are disabled on the job or in a horrific dibilitating car crash, and your lifetime limits on your health insurance run out, and you have no income anymore, and need help. Hopefully your church or parents will be there to pay for your lifelong care. Jerkoff.
Anonymous wrote:Most of religious charitable giving goes to maintaining that religious organization and the clergy. Even the mormon church got listed by the forbes magazine.
And as has been mentioned, they are very particular about who they help.
I would not call americans the most giving nation, judgemental, yes, but not giving
Anonymous wrote:Your lack of planning is not my fault
Anonymous wrote:Your lack of planning is not my fault
Maybe you should have made better decisions with who you married and decided to have a child with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am not now, but I was for the past 5 years.
The last 3, I was working full-time, but I'm single with a kid and I was making less than $25K. Last year, I was unemployed for 3mo due to a move and I made $18K total. I got everything back, plus the EITC. The money helped me pay off debt and get back on my feet.
I also qualified for daycare assistance, WIC and my son qualified for Medicaid his 1st year and CHIP until I got my current job. I qualified for Medicaid during my pregnancy and immediately afterwards. Then I went 2yrs without insurance, which I'm paying for now as I left things untreated (mainly my teeth).
I'm white, raised in an UMC family, and I have a BA. I also made the mistake of marrying a deadbeat, although I wised up when DC was 8mo and divorced him. We lived in a very conservative area where jobs were scarce and didn't pay well.
In the past 18mo, I've more than doubled my income and I'll be paying income tax this year. I have no problem paying, I'm grateful there was a safety net and help when I needed it and I hope that others are able to get that hand-up that I received. I'll be voting for Obama in Nov.
Maybe you should have made better decisions with who you married and decided to have a child with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote: I would truly like to hear Romney's response to the story above. If he heard it personally, I'm sure he would sympathize and go out of his way to help. But in the abstract, I think he'd say "She should have gone to her parents and church for help." But we don't all have parents or a church ready to give what's needed. Nor is that any less dependent a situation.
The "wrong decision" response is unfortunately widespread among those who lack the empathy to say "There but for ..." and to understand what that means.
That's the fundamental problem with our society we should be building up our church, and family support networks and not be reliant on the government. I think it's a cultural issue.
The church/community model doesn't work well.
In the US, different states provide different amounts of assistance. In states that rely on less government assistance, (Texas, and many Southern states) there are worse outcomes for health and education than in states that provide more government assistance (Minnesota, and many states in the Northeast and Pacific Northwest).
Anonymous wrote:I am not now, but I was for the past 5 years.
The last 3, I was working full-time, but I'm single with a kid and I was making less than $25K. Last year, I was unemployed for 3mo due to a move and I made $18K total. I got everything back, plus the EITC. The money helped me pay off debt and get back on my feet.
I also qualified for daycare assistance, WIC and my son qualified for Medicaid his 1st year and CHIP until I got my current job. I qualified for Medicaid during my pregnancy and immediately afterwards. Then I went 2yrs without insurance, which I'm paying for now as I left things untreated (mainly my teeth).
I'm white, raised in an UMC family, and I have a BA. I also made the mistake of marrying a deadbeat, although I wised up when DC was 8mo and divorced him. We lived in a very conservative area where jobs were scarce and didn't pay well.
In the past 18mo, I've more than doubled my income and I'll be paying income tax this year. I have no problem paying, I'm grateful there was a safety net and help when I needed it and I hope that others are able to get that hand-up that I received. I'll be voting for Obama in Nov.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote: I would truly like to hear Romney's response to the story above. If he heard it personally, I'm sure he would sympathize and go out of his way to help. But in the abstract, I think he'd say "She should have gone to her parents and church for help." But we don't all have parents or a church ready to give what's needed. Nor is that any less dependent a situation.
The "wrong decision" response is unfortunately widespread among those who lack the empathy to say "There but for ..." and to understand what that means.
That's the fundamental problem with our society we should be building up our church, and family support networks and not be reliant on the government. I think it's a cultural issue.