Who cares? I don't think it reflects on how much this woman loves her daughter or how she treats her. It's probably just a way to vent her frustration without her daughter knowing. Better than some things I've let slip in frustration that I'm NOT proud of.

Meh. If it lets her release some stress and aggravation, it's not the worst thing. Let's face it: we all get pissed off at our kids sometimes. And some people have a lower curse-word threshold than others. As long as it doesn't lead to her cursing out loud at her kid, not a big deal.

My mom would call me that out of anger sometimes. I've never forgotten and think its inappropriate and awful. Terrible to hear you parent refer to you in that way.