Anonymous wrote:I get it, OP moved from NYC to the NoVa suburbs. It is a culture shock to go from working in a city to a faceless office park. I moved to the DC area (live in Bethesda and work in DC) from Boston in 1990 and I'm still trying to like this areas as much as I liked Boston. There are a number f diverse jobs opportunities, however, and that is why I stay. OP get out of the NoVa suburbs -- at least look for a job with a trade group in Alexandria. The reality is, now that AOL is no longer such a presence, in this are you tend to work for, with or against Federal agencies. Which is why there are always jobs.
I get that part, and it's understandable.
I just don't get why OP is such an abusive jerk. And I think the abusive jerkiness might be affecting her current job experience, as well as her job search.