Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:50     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:Right, exactly like I said in my first sentence - no, I don't get it. So I don't get why people enjoy bragging about what awful parents they are = I don't have enough fun. Nice one PP.

Who is bragging? I see people stating facts "my kid is watching a movie" "I didn't put away the laundry", etc. I'm sitting on DCUM and there's 2 dirty pots sitting in the sink. I'm not bragging about it, but the pots are there. Apparently you are on DCUM too, shouldn't you be out striving for better?
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:47     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:Ok sure, you don't take laundry out of the dryer right away. Fine. I see that as completely different from actually admitting that you don't want to get up and find your missing 3yo because you're enjoying your wine. Maybe it was just OP's post - it takes it so much farther than just "I let my kid eat lots of ice cream" or "I'm wearing clothes straight out of the dryer."



So then there is one post that annoys you. Surely you don't think everyone who is admitting their faults is bragging about them right?
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:46     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Omg...no one is bragging!! Lol people are so crazy sometimes. It must be tough to never admit you do anything wrong. Because admitting you aren't perfect =you are bragging about what you don't do perfectly.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:45     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Ok sure, you don't take laundry out of the dryer right away. Fine. I see that as completely different from actually admitting that you don't want to get up and find your missing 3yo because you're enjoying your wine. Maybe it was just OP's post - it takes it so much farther than just "I let my kid eat lots of ice cream" or "I'm wearing clothes straight out of the dryer."
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:42     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just reading the other thread made me tired.

My one year old is watching a Narnia movie right now with my 6 year old.

I have no idea where the 3 year old is, but I heard rustling in the pantry about 5 minutes ago. I'll investigate further when I refresh my wine glass. I was out of pajamas for him so he is wearing one of his sister's nightgowns to bed.

I "cooked" three different dinners tonight. None were organic. Only one child consumed appropriate servings of multiple food groups. I keep hoping magic elves will show up and sweep the kitchen floor before the toddler has a second dinner of table scraps.



I've got to be honest - I don't get these types of posts. In the other thread, there are celebrations of women who are good mothers, who make time to volunteer and make healthy foods for their kids, etc. Sure not all moms are going to have the time or energy to be "perfect" in life at all times and of course most people are not holding it together as well as they seem to be. But I would think we could at least be inspired to be better.

So are we supposed to come on this thread and proudly post that we're letting our 1yo watch a 2+ hour movie, that we don't even know where our 3yo is, that we feed our kid processed crap 5 nights a week, that we yell more than we'd like to, etc. Listen, I'm no super mom either and yes, I have been known to have a glass of wine at dinner while watching my children - but to come on and brag about all this stuff just seems really odd to me.



Agree.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:41     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Right, exactly like I said in my first sentence - no, I don't get it. So I don't get why people enjoy bragging about what awful parents they are = I don't have enough fun. Nice one PP.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:40     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

I don't agree with the substance of PP's original critique, but I do agree that the constant snide misuse of sanctimonious is one of the most aggravating errors of DCUM posters.

Even in a made up contraction, the two parts retain their original meaning. For example, "fucktard" is a contraction of "fucking retard" and it would be ludicrous to argue that one of the root words means something different because you've contracted it. I DO NOT ADVOCATE THE USE OF THIS INSULT, I USE IT ONLY AS AN EXAMPLE OF SOMETHING I'M CONFIDENT WE'VE ALL HEARD A MALE UNDER THE AGE OF 25 SAY AT SOME POINT IN THE PAST DECADE.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:39     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Uh....judgemental mom, no one is bragging. I read it as people just stating a fact. My fact: I've been too lazy to put away the laundry i did friday after work. For the last couple of days, I've been taking my outfits out of the dryer. And I'm sure once kids come along, I'll be lazy about some things. I'm hardly bragging and would be mortified if someone (other than dh) saw me take my clothes out of the dryer and put them on right there, but i can be honest about it.

Relax a little lady.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:38     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just reading the other thread made me tired.

My one year old is watching a Narnia movie right now with my 6 year old.

I have no idea where the 3 year old is, but I heard rustling in the pantry about 5 minutes ago. I'll investigate further when I refresh my wine glass. I was out of pajamas for him so he is wearing one of his sister's nightgowns to bed.

I "cooked" three different dinners tonight. None were organic. Only one child consumed appropriate servings of multiple food groups. I keep hoping magic elves will show up and sweep the kitchen floor before the toddler has a second dinner of table scraps.



I've got to be honest - I don't get these types of posts. In the other thread, there are celebrations of women who are good mothers, who make time to volunteer and make healthy foods for their kids, etc. Sure not all moms are going to have the time or energy to be "perfect" in life at all times and of course most people are not holding it together as well as they seem to be. But I would think we could at least be inspired to be better.

So are we supposed to come on this thread and proudly post that we're letting our 1yo watch a 2+ hour movie, that we don't even know where our 3yo is, that we feed our kid processed crap 5 nights a week, that we yell more than we'd like to, etc. Listen, I'm no super mom either and yes, I have been known to have a glass of wine at dinner while watching my children - but to come on and brag about all this stuff just seems really odd to me.

Gosh, you really don't get it do you? It's call FUN, something you need to have more of.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:35     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Then don't participate PP.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:33     Subject: Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:Just reading the other thread made me tired.

My one year old is watching a Narnia movie right now with my 6 year old.

I have no idea where the 3 year old is, but I heard rustling in the pantry about 5 minutes ago. I'll investigate further when I refresh my wine glass. I was out of pajamas for him so he is wearing one of his sister's nightgowns to bed.

I "cooked" three different dinners tonight. None were organic. Only one child consumed appropriate servings of multiple food groups. I keep hoping magic elves will show up and sweep the kitchen floor before the toddler has a second dinner of table scraps.



I've got to be honest - I don't get these types of posts. In the other thread, there are celebrations of women who are good mothers, who make time to volunteer and make healthy foods for their kids, etc. Sure not all moms are going to have the time or energy to be "perfect" in life at all times and of course most people are not holding it together as well as they seem to be. But I would think we could at least be inspired to be better.

So are we supposed to come on this thread and proudly post that we're letting our 1yo watch a 2+ hour movie, that we don't even know where our 3yo is, that we feed our kid processed crap 5 nights a week, that we yell more than we'd like to, etc. Listen, I'm no super mom either and yes, I have been known to have a glass of wine at dinner while watching my children - but to come on and brag about all this stuff just seems really odd to me.
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:16     Subject: Re:Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

I let my toddler eat a lot of ice cream. I don't make her wash her hands enough. And she has a LOT of screen time.

Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:13     Subject: Re:Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:sanctimommy 35 up, 8 down

A parent who is overly devoted, micromanaging the lives of their children, from the food they ingest to the activities they participate in. Sanctimommies look down their noses at those who are more liberal in their parenting approach.
My mother is a sanctimommy because she won't let me eat any food with partially hydrogenated oil in it. She says it's like eating plastic.

from the urban dictionary.


So, the Urban Dictionary seems to lack basic etymological credibility? Is that what you're saying?

Look up the word sanctimonious in Websters and get back to me.


oh, PP, come on now... you don't get that its a PRETEND word with a made-up meaning that is not quite the same as the word "sanctimonious"

you must really be a barrel of laughs.



I've got you dancing furiously, don't I?
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:12     Subject: Re:Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:sanctimommy 35 up, 8 down

A parent who is overly devoted, micromanaging the lives of their children, from the food they ingest to the activities they participate in. Sanctimommies look down their noses at those who are more liberal in their parenting approach.
My mother is a sanctimommy because she won't let me eat any food with partially hydrogenated oil in it. She says it's like eating plastic.

from the urban dictionary.


I'll call your "Urban Dictionary" (whatever the fuck that is) and raise you "The New York Times."

http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/24/weekinreview/24kantor.html

"...But the definition of sanctimony includes hypocrisy..."
Anonymous
Post 06/03/2012 21:10     Subject: Re:Post here all the reasons you aren't supermom

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:sanctimommy 35 up, 8 down

A parent who is overly devoted, micromanaging the lives of their children, from the food they ingest to the activities they participate in. Sanctimommies look down their noses at those who are more liberal in their parenting approach.
My mother is a sanctimommy because she won't let me eat any food with partially hydrogenated oil in it. She says it's like eating plastic.

from the urban dictionary.


So, the Urban Dictionary seems to lack basic etymological credibility? Is that what you're saying?

Look up the word sanctimonious in Websters and get back to me.


oh, PP, come on now... you don't get that its a PRETEND word with a made-up meaning that is not quite the same as the word "sanctimonious"

you must really be a barrel of laughs.